This is the text:

Sorry you are having such a hard time with your new lifestyle...you know nothing is as easy as they say it will be...

WTF?

I got this:

Hey I saw the post about surgery - also look into Biotin for hair loss - it is a side effect that happens a lot - so look into it - hair is real important - Find some people who have had it done and ask them what they wish they knew before. I lost my best friend over this surgery - not dead but personality changed and only cared about all the adoration she was getting with her weight loss - so be careful...

After I replied I got this:

I don't want to lose another friend - I don't think you will change - really - I hope it goes well for you - it's not easy as people think -

Whereas I said I knew it wouldn't be easy. To which my friend replied:

Shit you'll look PHENOM by the concerts!

And you ALWAYS have looked phenom anyway!

I thought it was funny that she thought I'd toss away my friends once I lost weight. (And we've been friends for 30+ years) However if I start getting attitude from people I may cut the cord. However so far everyone is so positive.