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Diane,

I hope all is well. I just wanted to drop you a line to let you know I was thinking of you and wishing you well. I hope you can stop by and give us an update when you feel up to it.

Carol,

Nice to see you on the AZ board. Did you go to the seminar on Sunday? How was it?

Take care all!

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S. Elaine,

Yes I did go to my seminar yesterday! I really liked Dr. Blackstone....very down to earth and very informative. I had turned my application packet in earlier last week. They just called and my first appointment is this Friday 11/9!!!! I so need my husband to join my side, before I go. It would be so much easier.

Thanks for the note. You are such an inspiration for us all! Soon S. Elaine will stand for "skinny" Elaine. :(

Carol

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S. Elaine,

Yes I did go to my seminar yesterday! I really liked Dr. Blackstone....very down to earth and very informative. I had turned my application packet in earlier last week. They just called and my first appointment is this Friday 11/9!!!! I so need my husband to join my side, before I go. It would be so much easier.

Thanks for the note. You are such an inspiration for us all! Soon S. Elaine will stand for "skinny" Elaine. :)

Carol

Thanks, Carol, that's nice of you to say! (Now if only it were true.....:()

For what it's worth, I'm right there with you in the husband department. My husband was completely supportive before surgery, but has had a difficult time since. I'm not sure if he feels insecure, or upset by the financial burden this placed on our family, or both..... But, it would be nice to feel a little more support from the one person you count on more than anyone else. This is a difficult process and a difficult decision to make, and it only makes it that much more complex if your loved one isn't 100 percent by your side. I get it. It hurts.

Congratulations on getting your first appointment scheduled. You are on your way! :biggrin1:

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Thanks, Carol, that's nice of you to say! (Now if only it were true.....:()

For what it's worth, I'm right there with you in the husband department. My husband was completely supportive before surgery, but has had a difficult time since. I'm not sure if he feels insecure, or upset by the financial burden this placed on our family, or both..... But, it would be nice to feel a little more support from the one person you count on more than anyone else. This is a difficult process and a difficult decision to make, and it only makes it that much more complex if your loved one isn't 100 percent by your side. I get it. It hurts.

Congratulations on getting your first appointment scheduled. You are on your way! :biggrin1:

SElaine,

Thank you! I was so shocked when they called me & my husband was standing right there...I wanted to jump up & down...mixed feelings for sure. I really feel he'll come around but I know it will change our lives. It is going to be as difficult for him to see me eating small portions. He's not going to think I'm eating enough. We have to take care of ourselves though.

You have a great positive attitude. I look forward to your postings. You have been so successful and I know you've worked hard for it.

Best wishes on your continued journey.:clap2:

Carol

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Another Dr. Blackstone patient. I am very very pleased with her office. I was banded about 1.5 years ago, had a minor set back but im back on the road to being a new thinner me.

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Hi ethansgrandma! I'm sorry to hear about your set back, but you have done a great job on your loss and you're gonna make it. I feel a little silly, but I just discovered (yesterday) that there are before & after pics on this site. I was so inspired and looked at them all! I love this site, you get the good, bad & the ugly and support beyond expectations. Hang in there.....we're all going to get there!:clap2: I feel better already, just because I made the decision to go forward. I swear my posture is even better....I feel a little lifted. That's good!

Thanks for your note.

Best Wishes,

Carol

Another Dr. Blackstone patient. I am very very pleased with her office. I was banded about 1.5 years ago, had a minor set back but im back on the road to being a new thinner me.

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SElaine,

Thank you! I was so shocked when they called me & my husband was standing right there...I wanted to jump up & down...mixed feelings for sure. I really feel he'll come around but I know it will change our lives. It is going to be as difficult for him to see me eating small portions. He's not going to think I'm eating enough. We have to take care of ourselves though.

You have a great positive attitude. I look forward to your postings. You have been so successful and I know you've worked hard for it.

Best wishes on your continued journey.:clap2:

Carol

Carol,

I have experienced (and still do!) so many mixed feelings. I guess it's just part of the process. You are right, though; We must take care of ourselves and make that our priority. Hopefully, everything else falls into place.

Only 2 days left until your appt. Are you getting excited?

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Carol,

I have experienced (and still do!) so many mixed feelings. I guess it's just part of the process. You are right, though; We must take care of ourselves and make that our priority. Hopefully, everything else falls into place.

Only 2 days left until your appt. Are you getting excited?

Thank you for your response! YES, I am excited about my appointment. There are so many different preop & postop stories on the liquids, mushys etc. I look forward to knowing what I'll be doing per this Dr.'s instructions. They said to expect to be there 4 to 5 hours. Pyscho testing & evaluation, meet with dietician and consult with doc. Have written down my questions.

I understand the ups & downs / mixed feelings. I suppose that is part of our journey in the decision making process and living it. I want this, I believe this is the tool to help me get to a healthier weight & life.

Thanks so much!

Carol

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Carol,

who is doing your band? i just dont remember reading it anywhere. i have a friend who is going thru this appt today.

Hi! My appointment is at Scottsdale Bariatric with Dr. Blackstone. How about your friend?

Carol

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Thank you for your response! YES, I am excited about my appointment. There are so many different preop & postop stories on the liquids, mushys etc. I look forward to knowing what I'll be doing per this Dr.'s instructions. They said to expect to be there 4 to 5 hours. Pyscho testing & evaluation, meet with dietician and consult with doc. Have written down my questions.

I understand the ups & downs / mixed feelings. I suppose that is part of our journey in the decision making process and living it. I want this, I believe this is the tool to help me get to a healthier weight & life.

Thanks so much!

Carol

Carol,

I won't have much of a chance to visit the board during the next few days, but I wanted to say good luck with your appt. tomorrow. Please check back and let us know how it goes! :biggrin1:

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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