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Lipsticklady, Babbs you guys are simply too stupid for me to even say anything else to! Keep posting rude comments get your weight down instead of trying to say hurtful things. You guys are really make yourselves look like sleeved fools.

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AWWWW! You edited it!! Good job! Give this girl a cookie. Or a carp. :D

And get my weight down. Punkin, been there, done that. I'm 3.5 years out and maintaining like a champ. But thanks for the advice!

Both LipstickLady and Babbs were sleeved few years ago, are at goal weight and have been maintaining it for a long time.

They are experienced vets who followed their surgeon's post op guidelines, did not try to test their sleeves or do something stupid or dangerous.

They offer no nonsense support and they are role models for newbies and other sleevers further in their post op journeys.

Calling them stupid and fools really shows immaturity that I suspect come from a teenager and not an adult.

There is no need for name calling and being rude.

And bit of sense of humour doesn't hurt either.

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WTF is this? Do people really act like this on the forum?? Is the OP trying to shame all of us? WTF? I just had my sleeve done and thought this was a safe place.

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WTF is this? Do people really act like this on the forum?? Is the OP trying to shame all of us? WTF? I just had my sleeve done and thought this was a safe place.

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Trolls appear on all internet message boards. However, I haven't had this much fun watching a group trash the troll in years... since the AOL days, honestly. (Children today just don't know the struggle of the modem tones and the AOL Running Man... SMDH).

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Trolls appear on all internet message boards. However, I haven't had this much fun watching a group trash the troll in years... since the AOL days, honestly. (Children today just don't know the struggle of the modem tones and the AOL Running Man... SMDH).

Ok, thank you!!! Lol! I didn't read the responses, I was just stunned at what the OP wrote with bragging that their weight to start is most of our goal weight.

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It is a safe place and people are really helpful and supportive here. It has been really helpful to me. This is the first time I have seen a post like this. But it's been entertaining.

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You don't sound like a very nice person so unless you have a gun over my head, I will not be participating in your thread or threads from this point onward. ✌️

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Carpe diem!

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@@tess170 -- Hey, Sunshine, you must be lots o' fun at funerals. If you want to dictate the responses you get, you'll be mighty lonely talking to yourself.

Carp is a Jewish jelly fish salad,

and @@LipstickLady --

I'm Jewish and I never heard of it either. Carp jelly like fruit jelly? Or do you mean jelly as in aspic? Are you thinking of gefilte fish? Carp may or may not be one of the fish ingredients, as people who prefer the dish to appear white don't use carp, which gives a tan color. The "jelly" is the broth in which the fish mousse mixture is poached and then cooled. Not everyone eats the jell/aspic. I don't.

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Y'all.

Come over here and give me a kiss. On the lips...

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Not until you put on lipstick.

Hey, 12 pages of comments? I can't take time to read through for all the good stuff to play with. I came too [to?] late to the party.

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I don't think it's common. I had no gall stones, but it was releasing bile

The OP is the only one releasing bile in these waters.

@@tess170 wrote @@LipstickLady, @@Babbs you guys are simply too stupid for me to even say anything else to! Keep posting rude comments get your weight down instead of trying to say hurtful things.

No one is trying to or saying rude or hurtful things. People are merely jesting at your expense. Furthermore, I demand to be included in the stupid group. Have at me, Sunshine.

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I don't think it's common. I had no gall stones, but it was releasing bile

The OP is the only one releasing bile in these waters.

@@tess170 wrote @@LipstickLady, @@Babbs you guys are simply too stupid for me to even say anything else to! Keep posting rude comments get your weight down instead of trying to say hurtful things.

No one is trying to or saying rude or hurtful things. People are merely jesting at your expense. Furthermore, I demand to be included in the stupid group. Have at me, Sunshine.

This thread is giving me life

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Where is Alex and his ban-hammer? The fat shaming from a fat person is just...odd.

May I borrow-quote from The Treasure of the Sierra Madre right about here? "Badges? We ain't got no badges. We don't need no badges. I don't have to show you any stinking badges." We don't need no Alex yet. You've all been having fun and I want my share.

I give this thread 9/10 for entertainment value.

Anyone remember American Bandstand every afternoon? I give this thread a 9. It has a good beat and you can dance to it.

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Carp reminds me of Christmas in Prague where it's a tradition to pick one out from a vendor selling them live on the street, who then kills and packages it for the customer. o.O I skipped out on it.

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I will check anyone who's feels the need to leave rude or smart ass remarks on anything I post about my own weight loss journey. I will drop a picture of me before my surgery and currently to the date picture and make whoever disrespects my post feel like carp. My starting weight is what you end up weighting or more so don't get caught up trying to be funny with me! I was good before my surgery and I'm getting much better as the weeks go by. Peace and Blessing to all. This message goes to the few who tried to play me but they better play lotto at least you have have a chance of getting your dollar back. You stick to your diet once your cleared for solid foods.

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Why are you making the choice to log into this forum if you are so dissatisfied with responses you're receiving here you feel the need to make this thread?

Why are you trying to belittle others about their weight? If you were at peace with your own starting weight you likely wouldn't have pursued having weight loss surgery. The majority of us have been subjected to ridicule and social stigmatization for our weight, for years. I also started out with a lower BMI, but it still classified as obese, and I was still unhappy with it so I became resolved to changing it. To me, the marker of success isn't how much weight you started out at, but how much weight you lost and kept off through dedication. There are many people who've worked hard to achieve and maintain their weight loss, and come here to try to share their experiences. If you don't feel like someone's posts are worthwhile, though, you have the option to use the ignore feature. It's illogical to give your own time and attention to those you don't respect, when you have no obligation to engage.

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You guys should work on your extra skin instead of posting fishy pictures of you and your family members. you two or three guys got picked on and made fun of all your lives so why come on here trying to bully?

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I just came when I saw those serious DSL's on that carp.

A fish with potential........

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