Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Don't know if I'll be sleeping tonight...



Recommended Posts

I have my surgeon consult tomorrow afternoon. I am so ready to get this party started!!

Best case scenario : he says things are in order, all I need to do is my pre-op visits with psych, excercise physiologist and nutritionist - and then submit to insurance!

Worst case: (Besides "you can't have the surgery" of course!) is 6 months of visits/weight loss program, etc

Either way, I'm hoping to have at least a ballpark idea of when my 're-birthday' will be. :) Sooo excited!!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Great smile and---welcome!

Whether you have to jump the hoops for six months or not, you've already made the hardest decision----to have WLS.

It takes strength to come to terms with being obese, and then taking charge of "not" being obese. Such a journey is not for the weak or mind or body. :)

If you do have to wait six month, you will be surprised how quickly those months will fly by. You will be soo busy consulting with this one and then that one, losing a % of weight, going to seminars, and support groups---whew, I'm tired just remembering it.

Please, try to get a solid support team behind you. That is MY primary suggestion to everyone heading for WLS. Support is SO vital to success.

Keep posting. Keep asking. Keep letting us know how you are doing every step of the way. Yes, we are nosy, but we also care----a great deal.

Again----I welcome you! :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks so much Valentina!!

I have a wonderfully supportive family, so I feel very lucky. Can't imagine having to do something so life changing alone. :(

I know if I have to wait 6 months, it will be for the best and I'll take advantage of the opportunities available to even better prepare. But, I'm also no spring chicken and I've wasted enough of my life being fat & unhealthy! I'm ready now!! :D

Edited by MommaZ

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Welcome to the "old hens' " club. :)

There are many "mature" folks on this site. I am 63yrs myself. I had my WLS five years ago.

The "ol' chicken coop" is being invaded by those "young'ns", so get ready to absorb all of their energy and enthusiasm. I like to think we "mature" members counter balance them with our "wisdom", "life experiences", and "sage advice".

That's my story and I'm stick'n to it.

Again, Welcome! :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I had my consultation today and I'm so ready to get my party started too! I actually broke down in the car after my visit. My fiancé thought I was upset, but I told him that it just hit me that this is really happening! I've been waiting for years to get the surgery. My insurance didn't cover it years ago, so I put it out of my thoughts. Of course I gained more weight over those years. I'm so happy! I'm glad you're journey is beginning too! This is such an exciting time in our lives!

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I had my consultation today and I'm so ready to get my party started too! I actually broke down in the car after my visit. My fiancé thought I was upset, but I told him that it just hit me that this is really happening! I've been waiting for years to get the surgery. My insurance didn't cover it years ago, so I put it out of my thoughts. Of course I gained more weight over those years. I'm so happy! I'm glad you're journey is beginning too! This is such an exciting time in our lives!

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

I know what you mean!! I wanted to jump up and down and giggle like a madwoman and cry like a baby at the same time!! I settled for a crazy scream (got a concerned look from the lady exiting a car nearby!) and I high fived a concrete post! :D

Glad to "meet" someone just starting out too :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

It's very nice to meet you as well. I'm no spring chicken either! I've got the big 50 coming up in January. My surgery is planned for the end of October. I'm the worst at waiting, but I know that I have a lot of work to do between now and then to mentally and physically prepare for my new life.

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I will be at the end of October too. Can't wait. FYI if your into Pintrest they have lots of good tips and food ideas. Just look up gastric sleeve or wls

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I thought 6 months would drag on but it didn't. Hopeful you won't have to wait but in any case you are getting the party started and will get closer to your goal every day.

Sent from my SM-N910V using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I had my consultation today and I'm so ready to get my party started too! I actually broke down in the car after my visit. My fiancé thought I was upset, but I told him that it just hit me that this is really happening! I've been waiting for years to get the surgery. My insurance didn't cover it years ago, so I put it out of my thoughts. Of course I gained more weight over those years. I'm so happy! I'm glad you're journey is beginning too! This is such an exciting time in our lives!

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

You already have a surgery date? Are you self-pay? October will be here before you know it!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I had my consultation today and I'm so ready to get my party started too! I actually broke down in the car after my visit. My fiancé thought I was upset, but I told him that it just hit me that this is really happening! I've been waiting for years to get the surgery. My insurance didn't cover it years ago, so I put it out of my thoughts. Of course I gained more weight over those years. I'm so happy! I'm glad you're journey is beginning too! This is such an exciting time in our lives!

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

You already have a surgery date? Are you self-pay? October will be here before you know it!!

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm excited for you! I have my first meeting with my surgeon tomorrow. I know he will do the surgery..... It's just a matter of me being self pay or going through United healthcare.

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

I hope your visit went well! Are you considering self-pay because of insurance requirements?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was told the end of October. I still have to meet with the dietitian and psychologist, and complete two more support group meetings. I'm on month two of the three month supervised diet. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel!

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Kykittie1967 ~ That's great! October isn't far away at all. :D

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • ChunkCat

      I have no clue where to upload this, so I'll put it here. This is pre-op vs the morning of my 6 month appointment! In office I weight 232, that's 88 lbs down since my highest weight, 75 lbs since my surgery weight! I can't believe this jacket fit... I am smaller now than the last time I was this size which the surgeon found really amusing. He's happy with where I am in my weight loss and estimates I'll be around 200 lbs by my 1 year anniversary! My lowest weight as an adult is 195, so that's pretty damn exciting to think I'll be near that at a year. Everything from there will be unknown territory!!

      · 3 replies
      1. AmberFL

        You look amazing!!! 😻 you have been killing it!

      2. NickelChip

        Congratulations! You're making excellent progress and looking amazing!

      3. BabySpoons

        So proud of you Cat. Getting into those smaller size clothes is half the fun isn't it?. Keep up the good work!!!!

    • BeanitoDiego

      I changed my profile image to a molecule of protein. Why? Because I am certain that it saved my life.
      · 1 reply
      1. BabySpoons

        That's brilliant! You've done amazing!! I should probably think about changing my profile picture at some point. Mine is the doll from Squid Games. Ironically the whole premise of the show is about dodging death. We've both done that...

    • eclarke

      Two years out. Lost 120 , regained 5 lbs. Recently has a bout of Norovirus, lost 7 pounds in two days. Now my stomach feels like it did right after my surgery. Sore, sensitive to even water.  Anyone out there have a similar experience?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Eve411

      April Surgery
      Am I the only struggling to get weight down. I started with weight of 297 and now im 280 but seem to not lose more weight. My nutrtionist told me not to worry about the pounds because I might still be losing inches. However, I do not really see much of a difference is this happen to any of you, if so any tips?
      Thanks
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Clueless_girl

      Well recovering from gallbladder removal was a lot like recovering from the modified duodenal switch surgery, twice in 4 months yay 🥳😭. I'm having to battle cravings for everything i shouldn't have, on top of trying to figure out what happens after i eat something. Sigh, let me fast forward a couple of months when everyday isn't a constant battle and i can function like a normal person again! 😞
      · 1 reply
      1. kezbeth

        I may have to have gall bladder surgery during my weight loss surgery. Not thrilled about it either but do not want 2 recovery times. Just want it over with.

        Thanks for your post. I may need to rethink my decision... :(

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×