Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

I'm going to make a generalization (and I hate generalizations, because I am ridiculously libertarian), I will bet she was dependent on someone else to pay for the surgery. I think self payers should be exempted from psyc evaluations. I did my own internal work with my own counselor in making the decision, and I don't need the stamp of approval of someone I barely know.

BTW, please don't think that mental health people are better at predicting behavior than others. (see Psychiatric expertise in the prediction of ‘dangerousness’ is not established and clinicians should avoid ‘conclusory judgments in this regard.’'" https://lackofresultswamh.com/disability-and-violence/psychiatric-drugs-cause-violence/

Just gotta say this -- that blog you quoted, @@OKCPirate , is published by a Church of Scientology front group, which is anti-psychiatry, anti-psychology to the max. If you're going to quote a source to support your libertarian views, I bet you can find more reputable, trustworthy sources than Scientology.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

@@VSGAnn2014 - Good point, I knew the facts of the story because I was working against a proposed NY law that required mental health people to report people who "might be violent" which I objected to for two reasons:

1) I thought it would keep people who needed help away from it

2) Mental Health people were not perfect predictors

But remembering which article I found the information 3 years ago...well I'm not perfect. How does this article work: http://www.psychiatrictimes.com/articles/state-mental-health-system ;-)

BTW, the person who pointed out the limits of mental health professionals in predicting violence was my counselor, who was also the Chair of Consoling and Pyscology at his university.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow, lots of good thoughts here.

I do have doubts about the psych evaluation. While, as @@2goldengirl said, she wouldn’t have passed the psych eval with a lot of evaluators, I do believe, as @@CowgirlJane brought up, the occasional unscrupulous or pressured or even incompetent evaluator might pass her. @@Valentina raises a good point, too, that those questions are available online now. Yes, ideally an evaluator should go beyond standardized questions, but do they really always?

Does her young age matter? It’s something to consider. I think there is a difference between a young 20-something who is still living at home and has never had the opportunity to be the head of household and set up her or his own healthy environment and may still be under the influence of an unhealthy environment because of parents, versus a 20-something who has already had the experience of being completely in charge and was still unable to lose the weight.

@@Tommy Joe I lost 88 lbs.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow, lots of good thoughts here.

I do have doubts about the psych evaluation. While, as @@2goldengirl said, she wouldn’t have passed the psych eval with a lot of evaluators, I do believe, as @@CowgirlJane brought up, the occasional unscrupulous or pressured or even incompetent evaluator might pass her. @@Valentina raises a good point, too, that those questions are available online now. Yes, ideally an evaluator should go beyond standardized questions, but do they really always?

Does her young age matter? It’s something to consider. I think there is a difference between a young 20-something who is still living at home and has never had the opportunity to be the head of household and set up her or his own healthy environment and may still be under the influence of an unhealthy environment because of parents, versus a 20-something who has already had the experience of being completely in charge and was still unable to lose the weight.

@@Tommy Joe I lost 88 lbs.

I agree. The range of maturity levels for anyone, let alone 20-somethings can be staggeringly broad.

If you don't go into this process with some maturity, self-awareness, autonomy, optimism, perseverance, etc,., or at the very least the capacity to develop those qualities, then this experience will be even more difficult. I think that is what the psych eval is ultimately designed to determine.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have two sisters that had the surgery one of them turned to alcohol and she never drank before Chelsea got very conceited and almost lost her husband cuz she was being promiscuous with other men Luckily everything got better for her and she's doing well now I've heard that people will replace one addiction with another I am positive that I will be a gym rat because that's what happened last time I lost a lot of weight.

Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G930A using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • ChunkCat

      I have no clue where to upload this, so I'll put it here. This is pre-op vs the morning of my 6 month appointment! In office I weight 232, that's 88 lbs down since my highest weight, 75 lbs since my surgery weight! I can't believe this jacket fit... I am smaller now than the last time I was this size which the surgeon found really amusing. He's happy with where I am in my weight loss and estimates I'll be around 200 lbs by my 1 year anniversary! My lowest weight as an adult is 195, so that's pretty damn exciting to think I'll be near that at a year. Everything from there will be unknown territory!!

      · 3 replies
      1. AmberFL

        You look amazing!!! 😻 you have been killing it!

      2. NickelChip

        Congratulations! You're making excellent progress and looking amazing!

      3. BabySpoons

        So proud of you Cat. Getting into those smaller size clothes is half the fun isn't it?. Keep up the good work!!!!

    • BeanitoDiego

      I changed my profile image to a molecule of protein. Why? Because I am certain that it saved my life.
      · 1 reply
      1. BabySpoons

        That's brilliant! You've done amazing!! I should probably think about changing my profile picture at some point. Mine is the doll from Squid Games. Ironically the whole premise of the show is about dodging death. We've both done that...

    • eclarke

      Two years out. Lost 120 , regained 5 lbs. Recently has a bout of Norovirus, lost 7 pounds in two days. Now my stomach feels like it did right after my surgery. Sore, sensitive to even water.  Anyone out there have a similar experience?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Eve411

      April Surgery
      Am I the only struggling to get weight down. I started with weight of 297 and now im 280 but seem to not lose more weight. My nutrtionist told me not to worry about the pounds because I might still be losing inches. However, I do not really see much of a difference is this happen to any of you, if so any tips?
      Thanks
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Clueless_girl

      Well recovering from gallbladder removal was a lot like recovering from the modified duodenal switch surgery, twice in 4 months yay 🥳😭. I'm having to battle cravings for everything i shouldn't have, on top of trying to figure out what happens after i eat something. Sigh, let me fast forward a couple of months when everyday isn't a constant battle and i can function like a normal person again! 😞
      · 1 reply
      1. kezbeth

        I may have to have gall bladder surgery during my weight loss surgery. Not thrilled about it either but do not want 2 recovery times. Just want it over with.

        Thanks for your post. I may need to rethink my decision... :(

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×