So Sunday I had dinner with M and some of his friends. The topic of my month long kidney stone ordeal came up and the joke was "was she making it up? I think she's telling the truth because it's a pretty elaborate story just to avoid a fourth date" Anyway, apparently my fairly limited contact was a puzzle to the bystanders. Besides MY medical stuff I was also intentionally taking it slow.

What was happening was during times when my symptoms were ok, I went on some dates but much of our contact was by phone, email. I remember thinking " this guy is gonna bail on me because who in the heck gets a kidney stone shortly after meeting someone?"

Btw, I have the same strange phenomena where my pals want play by play of my dating life. I wised up and say very little as some of the advice has been horrible.

I went to a party on Saturday and one of my girlfriends had told people I had met someone so of course the questions began. I was asked " is he nice?" The long pause before I replied " that's not exactly the first adjective that comes to mind", got a bunch of laughs. I dunno why. He's actually generous and has a life full of people who care deeply for him, treats me so well, but how can anyone call a right wing sarcastic attorney "nice"? Ha

Anyways I am enjoying getting to know his friends-a couple of them are women who are like little mother hens.

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right wing sarcastic attorney...NICE? Well, I've got 2 of the 3 (I'm not an attorney, but I play one at the capitol often enough) and unless you have really worked hard to tick me off, most people are going to say I'm nice. @@CowgirlJane I'm just listening in to your semi-private journal here, but he does sound like a great find. I hope it works out.