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jaxmama    3

jaxmama
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Ok. I've been over this decision for 2 years now. I've finally made the choice I want to do this. However, I currently don't have insurance and I see these surgeons in Mexico are so inexpensive it's almost too good to be true. What's the real deal here? Are there more positive outcomes than negative? Realistically it's a lot easier for me to come up with 6,000 than the 20-30k I keep seeing here (ny) my bmi is 45 and I am just sick of looking at myself. And feeling this way. Any words of encouragement? Positive? Anything?! My frustration level is through the roof. I've done research over the last 2 years but I never feel like I know fully what to even look into? Ugh.

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McButterpants    2,846

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Do your research on whichever doctor you chose - I chose not to go to Mexico, but to Las Vegas and paid about 30% of what my local hospital was charging.

This is a huge decision and it's not to be made on a whim. i probably waffled 100 times after my decision to have surgery.

But, I can honestly say - this was the best decision of my life. I look back at all the nervousness, fear, anxiety, etc. and it was wasted energy.

You'll know when you're ready. Once you make the decision, commit to it - follow the rules, find a good support system and get yourself prepared.

Best of luck to you!

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Proud2BMe    1,016

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In my area it would have cost me about 20 grand for self pay. So I went to Tijuana. It was great. I would do it again in a heart beat. I ended up only paying $6,700, which included the sleeve, having my gall bladder removed and 2 first class flights.

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moejoe27    130

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I was in the same place as you are now. That's when I met Stacy with Bariatric Pal Team MX. She talked to me about surgery in Mexico and let me know that the stigma that is attached is not true. I loved that Stacy and Bill lived there and knew the doctor's and hospitals. I knew they had actually lied eyes on things and could tell me the ends and outs of the Mexico Medical Tourism. I paid less than$5000.00 including my plane tickets. Best decision I have ever made! The support system is awesome! The preop and post op care is amazing! I couldn't believe that the whole experience was so great!

You will know when the time is right for you. Do your research. Talk to different people about their experiences. Know what your getting into. It's not easy. food is no longer comfort. I eat to live not live to eat. I was sleeved 3/8. If you have any questions just message me.

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jaxmama    3

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I was in the same place as you are now. That's when I met Stacy with Bariatric Pal Team MX. She talked to me about surgery in Mexico and let me know that the stigma that is attached is not true. I loved that Stacy and Bill lived there and knew the doctor's and hospitals. I knew they had actually lied eyes on things and could tell me the ends and outs of the Mexico medical tourism. I paid less than$5000.00 including my plane tickets. Best decision I have ever made! The support system is awesome! The preop and post op care is amazing! I couldn't believe that the whole experience was so great!

You will know when the time is right for you. Do your research. Talk to different people about their experiences. Know what your getting into. It's not easy. food is no longer comfort. I eat to live not live to eat. I was sleeved 3/8. If you have any questions just message me.

I guess I was getting nervous because it's hard to tell who's genuine and who is trying to sell you something when you do the research. Everyone involved with the mx team seems great. It helps to know they are truly a good team, and it's not just a show.

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moejoe27    130

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I worried about that too. I worried about if that person had gotten paid to say those things about the company. LOL I wanted to know if it was honestly the truth. I took a chance and it was the truth! I didn't wanna leave Mexico

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jaxmama    3

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I worried about that too. I worried about if that person had gotten paid to say those things about the company. LOL I wanted to know if it was honestly the truth. I took a chance and it was the truth! I didn't wanna leave Mexico

And does it have to all be paid in full before you get the surgery or is there a payment plan?

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rydersmama    804

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I had my sleeve done in Tijuana through Mexico bariatric center.

Was treated far better there than any hospital where I live...and I'm a nurse.

I honestly have nothing bad to say about the entire experience. They took care of everything.

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McButterpants    2,846

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Where in Vegas? I'm definitely open to suggestions.

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Blossom Bariatrics in Las Vegas.

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sherry24184    253

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They go in great details on what to do. You have pain meds but it's really an easy recovery.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      1. LeighaTR

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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