So i had my seminar and i got home and started feeling some type of way like if i wasn't 100% sure of going along with this i am self pay and i feel so dum for bot being able to do it on my own without having to waist $$$$ to get to loose weight i feel so sad stupid and i don't know why i feel this way I'm scared to regret it ????

feel, sad, stupid - I'm scared to regret it

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i saw your earlier post that was similar to the above

you asked if anyone has regrets over surgery

many/most of us don't regret it for a second

in all honesty some people might feel bad they initially had WLS

many people will change their minds shortly after surgery

some have complications and do regret it

i don't think this is the norm

others like me wish they had surgery years ago

you need to be aware of both sides of the coin

you are WORTH spending money on yourself

it is expensive, but you deserve to improve your health, become happier too

sounds like you have cold feet

put some socks on

many/most of us have similar emotions

sad/scared/nervous

happy, excited

these feeling frequently change from one day to another

you are about to have major surgery next month

for many/most of us - having WLS is the best thing they did

continue thinking about surgery

very important to know your true feelings

be aware of all things that can happen

devils advocate

if you are truly not sure you can handle surgery at this time

you might want to wait/change/postpone your surgery date

whatever you decide is the right choice for you NOW

good luck bud

kathy

I had the same feeling, but then I had to look at my past track record and admit my body will do it's damnist to preserve the fat. This is the best investment I ever made in my health.