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I did it for my health. At 62, I had many co-morbidities including two knee replacements and 17 herniated discs. It was the stroke that did me in and pushed me to follow through with bariatric surgery. I got sleeved in December of 2013 and actually have had a very nice, uncomplicated recovery. My goal was to lose 100 pounds from 235 to 135, but my doctor is ok with where I am at now, bouncing around 150. I still don't have a lot of energy, but my overall health is waaaaaay better, and I have more good days than bad.

Before surgery I had GERD, but not anymore. I had chronic diverticulitis, and six weeks prior to my sleeve, I was in the hospital deathly ill with ischemic colitis. My doctor told me later that he thought he was going to lose me. I have not had any further bowel issues at all since getting my sleeve.

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I kinda wish I would have had the RNY over the VSG

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I had a great experience. The first 3 days are uncomfortable because of the gas they use during all of these surgeries.

I was literally up and out of my bed within 30 minutes of getting into my room. I got up and started walking in short increments. I used heat packs, gas x and walking to deal with the gas pains. I learned very quickly that the pain meds did not work so good on that gas pain. I really did not have a lot of surgical pain.

I had surgery on Monday. Was released on wed. morning. I took the pain meds through Thursday night and by Friday was feeling pretty good.

The tougher part was getting all of the fluids they wanted me to drink in. At first you can drink 2 tablespoons at a time, which meant you would have to sip constantly. I ended up not being able to keep up with it and I would get nauseous. I found out that was actually dehydration setting in and got better about sipping all day long.

I had no complications from bypass. I don't get dumping syndrome and honestly it was the best thing I have ever done for myself.

Immediately following surgery my comorbitities went into remission starting with diabetes including stage 3 kidney disease.

I did send you a personal message a short time ago about some of the things I had learned about bypass prior to having it. Check your messages.

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Carolm1965, all I can say is "Wow ! You are amazing ! To go through what you've been through and still be able to see a positive future ahead of you takes an incredible amount of strength in your soul. You are a great role model with a "can do !" attitude , and you should be VERY PROUD of yourself ! You go girl !!!

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I didn't have a painful recovery, either (gastric bypass). I barely used any morphine at all in the hospital (the only reason I used the little that I did (via the pump) was because one of the nurses made me because she thought it would make my walking a little easier - otherwise, I felt totally fine and wouldn't have used it at all). The codeine or whatever they sent me home with sat unused as well. The only discomfort, really, was some slight nausea the first day in the hospital - and then my abs were pretty sore for the first few days. Enough that getting out of bed was a bit of a challenge (but do-able). Otherwise, nothing. Extremely easy recovery.

I did develop a stricture in week 4 or 5, but that's an easy fix...(and not terribly common).

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overgrown scar tissue that blocks the entrance to the small intestine. They happen in about 5% of gastric bypass patients - usually within the first couple of months after surgery (while you're healing). It's an easy fix - they do an upper endoscopy and use this balloon thing to dilate it. Night and day difference - I felt better immediately!

main symptom is you have a hard time keeping things down - but I also had some acid reflux with it. Both symptoms were completely gone after they "fixed" the stricture.

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it wasn't actually painful - for the upper endoscopy, you're knocked out.

as for the symptoms, the acid reflux was really bothersome, but not in a painful sort of way. Oddly, I was glad for the times when I threw up because then I could get it over with rather than deal with the acid reflux for two or three hours. UGH!!

Vomiting, at least for me, is easier post-op than pre-op. First of all, there's not much there, and secondly, you don't have nearly as much stomach acid, so you don't get that horrible taste in your mouth.

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Thank you, to everyone for your encouraging words.

I've learned a lot more about people in this thread.

We're all fighting the big fight, and it feels so good to have people around me, who understand what we are going through!

I'm always in awe of people who have met their goal, or are so close to it, and how that must feel...as I am still so far away from my goal, but when I think about it....not toooooo many more lbs until I am halfway there!

You're all so helpful here, I just wanted to say thanks!

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Thank you, to everyone for your encouraging words.

I've learned a lot more about people in this thread.

We're all fighting the big fight, and it feels so good to have people around me, who understand what we are going through!

I'm always in awe of people who have met their goal, or are so close to it, and how that must feel...as I am still so far away from my goal, but when I think about it....not toooooo many more lbs until I am halfway there!

You're all so helpful here, I just wanted to say thanks!

You are doing a great job!! Just remember how far you have come....not how long the journey may be. The scale may be in my favor right this moment but I am still struggling to work through body dysmorphic issues. I can't see the smaller me when I look in the mirror. We each have so many struggles (support from loved ones, stalls, hair loss, saggy skin, etc) and like you said, so many on here understand! It keeps me from pulling out what's left of my already thinned hair :)

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my heart stopped. it was a simple leap to wls after that although the heart stoppage had nothing to do with weight. up to that point I tried nutra systems, wt. watchers , south beach diet. calorie counting, exercise etc. and my wt was going up not down. I have always yo yo'd well but this time no. when my wt hit the 300 mark I was done trying with diet programs

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I chose to have lapband surgery . I had diabetes, high cholesterol and high blood pressure. I did not want to have a radical surgery such as bypass or sleeve at this point in my life. I have been extremely happy with my band and have had no complications or issues. I have been banded 2 1/2 years and I no longer have any health problems. In fact my Primary Physician told me yesterday at my checkup that he couldn't be happier with my labs. Everyone who has weight problems has to make their decision in their own time. I knew at 5'0 and 200 lbs I was on my way to be disabled. Best of Luck to you and I will pray for success.

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I'm in my 50s and was just beginning to have problems, nothing too serious, but I knew that if I didn't do something, I would be shortening my lifespan. I had thought about WLS and quickly dismissed it at first. I kept feeling that somehow WLS would mean that I had failed, that I would be taking the easy way out. Then I found myself chatting at length with woman that I hadn't known for very long. In the course of our conversation she told me that she had had WLS and had lost 135lbs. I was stunned! I had only known her as thin. I had never spoken to anyone who had had WLS. That really got me thinking. And then I was speaking to my rheumatologist and I confessed that I trouble not seeing this as admitting failure. She responded that I would be more of a "failure" if I did nothing. That was my turning point. I started researching and attending seminars, and now I'm 9 weeks post bypass surgery. No regrets. :)

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    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
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    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
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      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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