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Ok guys..... I was really stupid and got caught up in the heat of the moment and had really REALLY rough sex, and it was NOT in a bed. Needless to say, nothing around me was soft or cushiony by any means. This was last night. About two hours later, I noticed that my port was not where it usually was, but like under my ribs!!!! Not only that, but I can eat A LOT. This is terrible! I feel like it may have slipped up, or..... what if I caused a leak by being reckless??? I'm so upset.

I was banded Nov. 16, 2006. I HAD (have?) 1.6 cc's in my band. Now it feels like it's not even there. confused.gif My Dr. is on vaca and I cannot get in until Monday. So in the meantime, I'm freaking out! I talked to the nurse and she said the port could have "flipped". Well, I didn't tell her what caused this because I was too embarrassed.

Has anyone done anything like this or had an impact that may have disrupted the placement of the band?

I'm SOOOO angry with myself and I shoulda been more careful!!!! I worked so hard for this and now I feel like I could have screwed it up and might have to have revisional surgery--- just for one stupid night (1/2 hour!) of passion. angry_smile.gif

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I am sorry,I had to giggle! If it is a case of your port stitches being pulled, and losing saline, you will have the BEST story!

Seriously, call your doc. ASAP.

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At least you got a half hour!!!! (LOL) Most only get 5 minutes!!!

Sorry you are having problems, I hope everything works out for you!

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Since no one is being critical, I'll be more frank. YES- I really do think this could have happened. It was not just "rough sex", it was probably the roughest sex I've ever had. And I was bent over something (a desk) and obviously the impact of the desk jabbing and jabbing me over and over really ROUGHLY, screwed up my band. I know it did. I'm soooooooooooooo mad and frustrated! How could I have been so stupid??!!!!! furious.gif

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I popped a stitch and almost completely flipped my port by bending over and picking a weed out of my flower bed.

It happens so don't beat yourself up about it.

Myra

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If you're going to have something like that happen, at least you were enjoying yourself!!!!!!! I'm sure they've had that sort of thing happen before and they'll be able to fix you up.

I'm sure people have had the port flip for all kinds of reasons, and I bet yours is the best!!!

Just be careful with it until you can get in to see your doctor.

Good luck & I hope all is well.

I like rough sex once in a while myself and I would've never thought about the port. I'll definitely go easy in that area!

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Im so glad I joined this site!!! I wanted to ask my doctor about this but I was afraid and I didnt know how to phrase the question... I just asked questions like could my band slip by playing softball or basketball? What about very energetic excercise??? Well now I know... Sorry that it happened to you and I hope you find out what happened and get it taken care of quickly!!!:(

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Hi Totty,

I guess I made a bid deal outa nothin. I'm such a dork! Port is in same place and same amount of saline as last time! I made sure he accessed it from the same hole as last time and I watched him suck out the saline and it registered 1.6 cc's. I'm soooooooooooooo happy!!!!!!! Now I can continue to have crazy sex! JUST KIDDING….. I will definitely be more conscientious next time even tho nothin happened. I have NO IDEA why I thought my port was somewhere else; the only thing I can think of is that he said under my bruises, are knotted muscles- I think I thought that was my port. My muscles are really hard there for some reason.

My Dr. said out of 1000 patients he has never had a slip or a port flip or relocate. He said he stitched it to the muscle lining and I don't have to worry about it moving.

I found this out on Monday..... sorry I didn't let everyone know- been soooo busy. Anyway, I'm SO grateful nothing is wrong and it is SUCH A RELIEF!!!!

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Thanks for sharing, I was wondering the same thing myself. My hubby and I occasionally enjoy the rough stuff, so at least now I know to be careful.

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