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Hey yall I have a question. Do some of you who recently had the surgery find yourselves hating food? Eating has become such a chore. I never know what to expect when I eat. Maybe it goes down smooth, maybe it doesn't. Who is to say? I find myself getting overwhelmed on days like today when I have to force myself to eat. One thing that I loathe about the surgery is drinking. I hate sipping my ice cold Water. But damn if I won't sip Lolol you pay if you don't sip. How does water hurt? ???? anyway, I hope I'm not alone with the struggle with food. It feels like I had to dump my fiancé and now we are trying to be friends which hardly ever works lol. Thoughts?

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I hate food. Most days I wish I didn't have to eat. I think it's fear... Will my food agree or disagree with me. ????

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I see you said I hate sipping ice cold Water. I don't like ice cold water either and never drink it, It's always room temperature. And something else, I never drink plan water, don't like that too. I have to mix it up with something and I use an assortment of sugar free flavors to do it. There's dozens of them out there and you're sure to find a taste you like.

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Its not just you im 1week post op and i do not feel hungry at all i basically have to force everything down. I dont hate food but i can see it and don't crave it but we have to sip sip sip if not we get sick.

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Before this surgery, I lived to eat and eat and binge and indulge.. now I just eat to live. It is strange how that switched both physically and mentally.

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I felt the same way my first month. I hated drinking or eating anything. And threw up twice because something did not go down. But now I'm three months out and for the most part I know what I can eat that won't make me sick. I promise it gets easier. Also one tip: If you decide to introduce new foods try to eat them at home first, I made the mistake of attempting to eat something new in public then spent an hour in the bathroom throwing up.

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I think it changes over time. I am 12 weeks out now. I only like room temp Water, and I'm very fussy about what kind. I also drink Herbal tea, mostly at night. It is easier for me to drink now. It is easier for me to eat, but not a lot easier. It all keeps changing.

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Yes. So much yes. food is a real pain sometimes

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Yep. I hate food. Nothing about having to eat is fun or exciting. It takes up to much time to have to eat. Forcing myself to eat only makes my hate it more. If I actually got hungry, then it would make it easier. Till then food sucks.

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I fear and hate it. :( I eat and I am sick, I don't eat and I feel sick. Such a weird feeling. I have not found my medium ground yet with eat. I fear I am eating either too much and or too fast. I am thinking I ear too fast which makes me sick. Or things that get stuck.

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What's really bad is the stuff I shouldn't be eating goes down easy (crackers, Pasta, cereal). Everything I should be eating (eggs and all meats) sit like a rock in my stomach if they don't come back up.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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