I don't know if it's because I stopped taking my anxiety meds (they're so big and cumbersome to break and take 3x a day (because it was ex release before which won't work now)...

but I have NO patience. When my toddler or baby are acting like little kids...(Normal)...I get so irritated and frustrated with them...like too quickly. Like a rage taking over me.

And same with how I've been with my husband. I am going NUTS at home not being able to drive just for this 1 week and the anxiety is out of control...

suck it up and start taking the meds 3x a day?

Something else?

I'm 1 week post op today!

Get your doctor to switch your meds to a pharmacy that does compunding. It sounds like you really need them and if the problem is as you stated, a compounding pharmacy can make up your meds in a different fashion - to include a liquid form and flavoring to help get it down. Good luck!