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You guys will do great. I had so many mixed emotions and was terrified of the pain. I had my sleeve last Monday and everything went perfect. I was home after one night and I swear I have had maybe 12 total hours of pain... which was really all gas and feeling like indigestion. Walking really helps the gas and sleeping propped up works for me. I'm glad I went through with this I am off insulin and high blood pressure meds and will be on soft food in two weeks. It will be OK.

You are already off BP meds? Wow. That is the first I want to get rid of out of 3 meds I'm on.

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I am on June 12th and very excited I am a band to sleeve revision

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It is amazing how different each dr's surgery prep is. I have 14 days of 4 Protein shakes. I think I would rather have a sensible dinner option.

I told my kids I might be a bit cranky today and explained I am only doing Protein Shakes. My 10 year old understands. He often has a Protein and milk drink.

The food funeral thing is totally wrong, I know it. Someday when I am down in weight I (we) will be able to moderately have indulgent foods on rare occasions. The key is moderation, control and rarity. I have a few friends who had a VSG. They said the key was to follow the rules. One dr told my friend to eat a bite every 10 min. Right now I can't even imagine that. Each friend who had the SX has a totally different story. More later. Let's just say 2 of them have been stalled since dec with a June and July 2013 surgery dates. The both have at least 40 pounds left.

One of my weird fears is losing weight too fast and I will lose muscle tone and be floppy everywhere. I am a classic apple shape with decent muscle tone. My tone was much better a year ago but it's been a rough lazy year for me. Big chest and huge belly with tiny legs and normal arms. I know I will have a skin issue on my stomach. Without a doubt.

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I'm scheduled for my sleeve on 6/9 as well.

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I am June 13th with preop liquids starting one week before on June 6th! I am really excited. Already cut back and having Protein Shake once a day instead of a meal. Had to find the right ones because some are just gross!!

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I am June 13th with preop liquids starting one week before on June 6th! I am really excited. Already cut back and having Protein Shake once a day instead of a meal. Had to find the right ones because some are just gross!!

Every dr. Is different. Mine is 14day of 4 daily Protein Shakes with milk or Water, broth, Jello, or Popsicles. All sugar free. Tea and coffee are ok

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Hi All - I don't have a surgery date yet, but I'm hoping it will be soon. It will be super helpful to hear from all of you in the weeks (and months) to come. I think I have the appropriate amount of fear regarding the operation and the lifestyle changes, but I'm mostly hopeful and excited for the change.

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I'm June 9th as well. I start my pre-op diet tomorrow. 3 Protein Shakes a day. 6-8 glasses if Water. I can add crystal light ( sugar free) or sugar free kool laid for taste. I can also have sugar free Jello, broth or Popsicles. The main thing is at least 60 gr of Protein. Low sugar and low fat and lots of water. I'm ready for this! for the last week, I have enjoyed some of my favorite meals as I am saying good bye for now. One day when I can eat these foods again, I will have the control to do this in moderation. I'm very lucky... I have a great support system. My husband is going to have a sleeve done as well. He is not scheduled yet. He's going to drink protein shakes for supper with me to be supportive. I know we can all get through this! Surgery is just two weeks away.

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I'm June 9th as well. I start my pre-op diet tomorrow. 3 Protein Shakes a day. 6-8 glasses if Water. I can add crystal light ( sugar free) or sugar free kool laid for taste. I can also have sugar free Jello, broth or Popsicles. The main thing is at least 60 gr of Protein. Low sugar and low fat and lots of water. I'm ready for this! for the last week, I have enjoyed some of my favorite meals as I am saying good bye for now. One day when I can eat these foods again, I will have the control to do this in moderation. I'm very lucky... I have a great support system. My husband is going to have a sleeve done as well. He is not scheduled yet. He's going to drink protein shakes for supper with me to be supportive. I know we can all get through this! Surgery is just two weeks away.

With your protein shakes are you going to use low fat milk or water with your shakes? I was told clear liquids by doctor nutritionist said full liquids. I am starting tomorrow. What would you do?

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I LOVE HEARING EVERYONE'S STORIES, THOUGHTS, AND CONCERNS! I feel like My husband must be going crazy listening to me talk about this all of the time. It feels great to talk to everyone who knows EXACTLY what I'm going through!

The differences in pre-op diets are crazy! I was instructed to do a 10 day pre-op diet of 3 shakes and 1 lean cuisine. I'm thinking about just doing the 4 shakes. I can't stand the thought of chemically preservative-filled frozen meals, and I'm going to have to get used to drinking everything sooner than later. My main concern is that I have my sister's bridal shower on the first day that I am supposed to start my pre-op diet. I plan on telling extended family and friends eventually of my surgery (everyone close to me already knows), but I don't want to take the focus off of my sister by everyone wondering why I am drinking my 12 oz Protein drink rather than eating. I think 8 days should be good...

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So how is everyone telling the friends/family they don't see very often? Or are you not? It's just a weird subject to bring up, but I don't want friends to be upset that I didn't tell them. I think my parents are slightly embarrassed - they love me, but it's even harder for them to let people know about the surgery. I feel like I need a list of who knows so I can avoid the super awkwardness the next time I see them! Any thoughts are appreciated!

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hello all

i dont have a surgery date yet, i should find out on june 4th. I have been on 2 shakes a day with lean Protein and veggies for supper since may 8th. I have lost 38 pounds in that time. I am hoping to get my surgery date as soon as possible after my appointment.

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