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I'm ten days post op and I so want to feel normal. I am still at the regret stage because everyday is a struggle. Today I tried to be normal. Brought my daughter to her dance class and then skating, came home, had some puréed lean meatballs and sauce 3 oz and then felt like I was seriously going to vomit. I tolerated this meal fine a few days ago. I just feel like everyday it's a new challenge to deal with. I just want to feel normal. Help!

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That may just be too early for that kind of food. It's amazing how different practices have different requirements for eating after surgery. I am finishing up two weeks of full liquid diet after my surgery, then I move to 2 weeks of pureed foods, then on to normal food.

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My doc puts you on puréed as soon as you leave the hospital.

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I started feeling "normal" at about 3 months post op. Don't worry, you'll get there. Just be patient and don't push it...I couldn't even dream of eating puréed meatballs at 10 days. I did liquids for 18 days and then SLOWLY transitioned to puréed, then soft, then regular food at about 6 weeks out. Your stomach is still swollen and your staple line isn't even close to healed yet. Keep it bland and simple and feel free to backtrack on your meal plan if things don't sit right.

Be patient. This is about the rest of your life, not just the first couple weeks.

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I too think 10 days is too soon for that rich food. Some days you can tolerate something and the next day you cannot. People post this every day here, how foods affect them. Reading a lot of the posts made me a little more scared to try food too soon, because nausea is something I do not want, nor vomiting. We started pureed foods about 4 weeks out. If it makes you sick wait a month and try it again. We are all learning to live a new life and our eating habits have changed for the better, thank goodness.

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At my 1 week post-op appointment my surgeon asked if I could tolerate another week on "Clear Liquids". He said that it would be best for my new little tummy so that it would reduce the stimulation of the digestive system and give my stomach more time to heal. He said I could have a watered down Protein Shake but I tried that and it hurt so clear liquids it is. I want my little pouch to heal and for the swelling to go down before I try creamier liquids. Good Luck to all!

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Everyone's doctor is different just like everyone's body is different. My doctor never used the words puree to me at all! He is more for getting your Proteins from food rather than shakes so like I said...everyone is different. I eat soft foods, but not pureed and I do eat meat, but he clearly instructed me not to swallow anything that wasn't as fine as applesauce. I have done ok for the most part. I do sneeze and get hiccups when I am overfull. My problem is getting this eating schedule down. I am never really hungry, but if I don't eat something, my stomach gets real hostile and sour like. So I have to eat a bit of something, then I am pretty ok.

This is a process...

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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