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I got banded on Dec 5 and up til the 17th i was golden. No problems at all. My husband took is all to new york and I started on mushies. Ate slow, or thought i did. Walked everyday, climbed stairs and WOW!! Im in much more pain than right out of surgery.

My inscision where the port is, is leaking clearish bloody Fluid. I have a lump between my breast bone which is killing me ( my PA said that would happen when i started eating) so im back to liquids, and my entire torso is sore like never ever before. I need my husbands help to get up from bed or from a chair.

Im hoping to see my surgeon tomorrow morning. But just wondering if ANY OF YOU had this problem. Please help!!

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I'm a nurse and it doesn't sound right to me. When you mash around the lump does more Fluid come out? If so, and it was me, I'd keep mashing til it stopped coming out. I never got a lump when I started eating and it doesn't make sense to me.

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Yes I agree, you need to get to hospital, I have never experienced problems like these. Good Luck and hope you feel better soon x

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Thanks everyone. Lump is near my sternum and the liquid leaking is from my port area. Right now im feeling better. No pain just soreness. Have had a heating pad on all day. Its been tolerable, but going straight in to see my surgeon tomorrow. Thank you again for your comments.

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If your not sure call your surgeon and have them take a look or if you can't get ahold of your surgeon then go to the E.R immediataley also You are still healing why would you want to exert yourself it takes at least a month to fully recover I know some of us it only takes a few days to a week to feel good but not healed from surgery just to feel good , so you probally stained yourself to much after so little time , please go call your surgeon so they can see or go immediately to E. R. don't wait till it gets worse, and e more careful.

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this is not normal. do you have a fever? your surgeon s/b seeing you right away. don't let the receptionist put you off. she will because it's a monday. tell her you want to speak to the nurse right away, don't play it down. sometimes it's hard to get past those front ppl. good luck please have this checked. it maybe nothing but you need to be sure. if it's an infection you need medication quickly.

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Let us know what happens and what they say , it will be helpful to other banders or to the ones who are thinking about being banded and you can also post it on the band complication site , so please let us know what happens , thankyou.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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