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RJ, just come across this thread - I can't believe what's happened to you! But, as ever, you have kept your humour and sense of perspective while you must be in agony. Hope the pain diminishes soon and that the universe takes a look at itself and says enough for you for now....

I would send you a big hug but I'd better not squeeze you too hard :-)

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RJ, just come across this thread - I can't believe what's happened to you! But, as ever, you have kept your humour and sense of perspective while you must be in agony. Hope the pain diminishes soon and that the universe takes a look at itself and says enough for you for now....

I would send you a big hug but I'd better not squeeze you too hard :-)

Thanks Indigo! Always appreciate your well wishes!

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Hope you're feeling better today!

Nope..worse..Went to the Chiropractor last night and he made some adjustments..Could not find a comfortable spot to sleep for pain...Got up this morning and now my right side hurts almost as bad as the left does....

Then I went for an X ray to see how my lungs are due to pneumonia...I said to the girl that doesn't look good..she said you mean the Fluid in your lung..I said yup..She said oh well things could be worse...I said your telling me!!!!!!!

Probably another round of horse size antibiotics doing havoc on my system..Oh never mind.....I am just discouraged...

I got some new nail polish though...with pink sparkles in it..Think I will give it a go later today....lol

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Oh Honey! I'm so sorry you're in so much pain. I hope all the love and concern that has been expressed for here helps ease it a little.

No..But it helps me know that there are people out there who understand and take the time to let you know they care....

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We are going to have to wrap you in bubble paper!

I think woman did that in the sixties...no wait it was meet your husband at the door wrapped in cellophane...hehehehehe

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We are going to have to wrap you in bubble paper!

I think woman did that in the sixties...no wait it was meet your husband at the door wrapped in cellophane...hehehehehe

Husband:

"What,...leftovers again?"

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We are going to have to wrap you in bubble paper!

I think woman did that in the sixties...no wait it was meet your husband at the door wrapped in cellophane...hehehehehe

Husband:

"What,...leftovers again?"

gmanbat...I think we watched the same movie :rolleyes:

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We are going to have to wrap you in bubble paper!

I think woman did that in the sixties...no wait it was meet your husband at the door wrapped in cellophane...hehehehehe

Husband:

"What,...leftovers again?"

gmanbat...I think we watched the same movie :rolleyes:

That was in a movie? I thought I stole it from Joan Rivers. Coulda been both. :)

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Oh no, RJ!! I'm so sorry to read this!! My goodness, you surely are a lesson in keeping positive through just about ANYthing!!! Hun, I would hope and pray I could be as gracious and positive thinking as you are if I had to endure the same battles/struggles that you do. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers, my friend.

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We are going to have to wrap you in bubble paper!

I think woman did that in the sixties...no wait it was meet your husband at the door wrapped in cellophane...hehehehehe

Husband:

"What,...leftovers again?"

gmanbat...I think we watched the same movie :rolleyes:

That was in a movie? I thought I stole it from Joan Rivers. Coulda been both. :)

Joan Rivers...oh yuck!..no I got it from " Fried Green Tomatoes " with Kathy Bates...She showed up at the door when her husband came home and he said soooo whats for dinner....lol

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Oh no, RJ!! I'm so sorry to read this!! My goodness, you surely are a lesson in keeping positive through just about ANYthing!!! Hun, I would hope and pray I could be as gracious and positive thinking as you are if I had to endure the same battles/struggles that you do. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers, my friend.

Thank you cutie....You know what Sonny and Cher sang.." And the Beat Goes On ".....

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