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Regardless of what surgery you choose I encourage you to practice your new health habits before the surgery. Try and start an exercise routine no matter how small and practice drinking less (or not at all) during meals, start choosing food based on what you'll be eating after your WLS. The earlier you start practicing those habits the easier they'll be after the surgery.

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Hi Desertpixie

I"m in my 8th year of being a "Bandster".

I've had no issues at all. I listened to my doctor and I followed the guidelines given to me. Yes in the beginning I had to "diet".

I can still eat 3 meals a day and 2 Snacks (when I want to). I can eat ANYTHING in moderation except rice and apple skins.

I've lost 160 lbs. I started with a 54" waist and am now a 30" waist.

I host 3 coffee groups a month for people that have been banded. I have people in my groups that have been banded anywhere from 2 to 12 years and only 2 people have had issues (both slipped bands)... very early on and they are both doing well. Every person in my group has lost. There are at least 14 people that have lost 100 lbs.

If you work with the band it does work.

I have not regrets at all... it changed my life.

I love the band because I don't feel like I missing out on anything... ok.. maybe diet pop on a hot summers day or a cold beer now and then but hey I'll take being thin over a cold beer and have ice tea :)

Please feel free to email me if you would like to chat... I have free long distance and I would be happy to call you.

Tom, Toronto

Banded July 6 06

tomander@bell.net

Wt. Loss: 160 lbs

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For me it was the amputation, I just could not do that when the option of the "Band" was available. Yes each have numbers/data ... IMO and just for me it's was the lap-band that made sense.

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My surgeon explained to me all surgeries and let me decided wich surgery I will do,he told me all of them have similar lost % 80,70,60+ except that the band take a little longer , I decided the band because it seem more safe from the other 2 , so far I am happy with my decision I lost 30 pounds including pre op liquid diet and down 2 sizes , at the end you are the one whom have to make a decision what is best for you not the doctor is you body and you owned, I was banded november 6 , 2013 best wishes to you.

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That was it for me too. Actually loosing a part of your stomach. I can't deal with that. A band I can control and have as long as I do or don't want. I'm not a fan of Dr's or medical procedures so even this is pushing it haha.

Will take a look at the food and nutrition pages on starting to accommodate a lapband friendly food list now so I can be as prepared as possible. That was a good idea, thanks for the suggestion.

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That was it for me too. Actually loosing a part of your stomach. I can't deal with that. A band I can control and have as long as I do or don't want. I'm not a fan of Dr's or medical procedures so even this is pushing it haha. Will take a look at the food and nutrition pages on starting to accommodate a lapband friendly food list now so I can be as prepared as possible. That was a good idea, thanks for the suggestion.

In addition to types if food try to practice some different eating habits as well for instance I practiced the following.

*not drinking any liquids during or 30 minutes after eating

*using a salad plate rather than a dinner plate

*eat with chopsticks or cocktail/baby forks and spoons

*put your fork down between every bite

If you practice these habits beforehand I found that after the band it was much easier to adjust to smaller portions and recognize when I wasn't hungry anymore rather than eating until "full".

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I've had my date through of 4th january. This is so exciting and also completely nerve racking. Eeeeeek

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      1. Selina333

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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