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Hi all,

Looking for a little advice. I have NOT been 100% on my pre-op diet.. I feel as though I have failed at it & I'm having surgery in 2-3 days time.. Should I tell my surgeon and have it postponed or have other people on here been in the same situation as I am in currently? I feel terrible :(

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OK details please. Assuming that you are on a fairly strict two-weeker, what and how often were "you bad". This is NOT to beat you up but to assess and advise.

This is hard. NO DOUBT, and please DO think. It sure is hard now, and after surgery it will STILL be harder still.

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For instance, for most of the 2 weeks on Optifast I would have the shake & a bar for Breakfast & lunch & then after work get home And eat pretty much anything.. bread, eggs, sometimes take-away. I'm sitting here wondering if I have no self control now am I wasting my time having this surgery done or will it help someone like me?

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I believe there is another thread here in which people were discussing that the pre op diet maybe done away with as a requirement, that it truly has no benefit, but I would discuss it with my doctor. He is the one cutting he deserves to know what he may run into. Also you should consider why you did not stick to the diet, are you having doubt. This is not something to go into unless you are positive. I will admit so far on my pre diet I have cheated a little here and there. A bite of this or a bite of that which I had discussed with the bariatric nurse. She said that was fine, I am down 26 pounds in two weeks so she was not concerned with a couple bites not on the diet. I wish you all the best luck.

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One hidden benefit of following the pre-op diet is that it makes it much easier to follow the post-op diet. You can really do anything for 2 weeks. I can't really speak intelligently about the medical effects of cheating on a pre-op diet. But despite what some posters have said, cheating post-op can damage your sleeve. It's one of those things…we are making a huge change here and taking on this surgery, so why do anything (preventable) that could make it all go south?

You are stronger than you know.

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I believe there is another thread here in which people were discussing that the pre op diet maybe done away with as a requirement, that it truly has no benefit, but I would discuss it with my doctor. He is the one cutting he deserves to know what he may run into. Also you should consider why you did not stick to the diet, are you having doubt. This is not something to go into unless you are positive. I will admit so far on my pre diet I have cheated a little here and there. A bite of this or a bite of that which I had discussed with the bariatric nurse. She said that was fine, I am down 26 pounds in two weeks so she was not concerned with a couple bites not on the diet. I wish you all the best luck.

The pre-op diet does have a benefit..It shrinks your liver which makes it much easier for your surgeon to do the WLS...A clamp holds your stomach up and out of the way so that the surgeon can work on the stomach. If the stomach slips then it would be a disaster..There was a time when a person help it up but today there is a small clamp and it is placed in there...That is one of the main reasons why the liver is shrunk....The shakes also detoxe your body to make it a bit easier for you to go into post op.

Some doctors don't require anything before surgery others do. If your surgeon requires it then it probably would be a good idea to tell him/her what has happened....they will not cancel for long....

This is one of the most difficult things that you will ever do....But sooooooooo worth it I promise you!!!!!

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Okay, don't take my remarks as being mean, take them as tough love. You are making a lifelong change to your body. But this surgery isn't going to be your magic cure. YOU have to be your cure, especially once you get past the first few months. I am almost 6 months post-op from surgery and my restriction has decreased a lot and my hunger has, alas, increased tremendously. It's very rare you'll find patients who lose hunger and cravings forever. I never threw up once, despite the couple of times I truly overate. Bad habits, like eating a lot of carbs, slider snacking, or take out, can come back swiftly if you let them, and derail your weight loss or maintenance. At this point I am, for the most part, running on my own steam and my own self-control.

So now that some light has been shed on how difficult the road will be post-surgery (by myself and other posters) you should ask yourself, are you ready to make real change in your life? The biggest test of your preparedness is the pre-op diet. If you fail at it, you are actually failing yourself. You cannot count on your sleeve to change who you are mentally or your habits. It's stomach surgery, not brain surgery. Only you can decide here and now that you will NOT continue down the path of obesity, that you are going to take a stand and make a real commitment. Do I think non-compliance will cause harm if you go ahead with the surgery as planned? Probably not, but that's up to your surgeon who you must consult with. Medically speaking, the pre-op diet benefits patients who have a fatty or enlarged liver by possibly shrinking it a bit or changing the composition. But mostly it's to help you get your head in the game and prepare you for a different way of eating and living. If I, a certifiable food addict can do it, so can you. Your health, well being, and happiness are worth it.

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Brooklyn Gal has given you great advice. Period.

Love, but tough love. The sleeve will not be your solution unless you are willing to make big and basic changes. Not easy. Not easy at all... but not impossible either.

Keep posting and tell us how you are doing.

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My surgeon only required a liquid diet the day before my surgery and nothing after midnight. I had no issues being sleeved.

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Hi all, Looking for a little advice. I have NOT been 100% on my pre-op diet.. I feel as though I have failed at it & I'm having surgery in 2-3 days time.. Should I tell my surgeon and have it postponed or have other people on here been in the same situation as I am in currently? I feel terrible :(

Definitely tell your surgeon. Mine told me that he has actually started surgery on a patient (several times) and closed the person back up and didn't do surgery because of their big liver. It's not only dangerous for you because a larger liver tends to crack and bleed but also dangerous for your surgeon because your not following the diet and him doing surgery anyway could lead to health issues for you and a malpractice suit against him. It's just not worth the risk.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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