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I get it from you find you something to do too

Mz Shay

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Look who's being nasty now....

I get it from you find you something to do too please don't comment I don't want nothing to do with you at all

Mz Shay

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I get it from you find you something to do too please don't comment I don't want nothing to do with you at all

Mz Shay

And this Stat wad about you turn the page that's why I wrote I'm very nice but not of fan of you at all go away that why tinymama not on here no more because of you but I'm the right one sweetheart go away !!!!!!!

Mz Shay

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Sorry--I can't understand your illiterate and incomprehensible post. I have done nothing but write positive comments to you up until a few minutes ago when I pointed out the irony of your statement above, swiping at another poster.

I don't know why the welfare cheat (she wrote that she was taking public aid for her kids while squirreling away her own money for a boob job) chose to leave the forum, but it was her choice. Perhaps she had embarrassed herself by her posts, laying out all her troubles for everyone to see. That was her choice too.

I simply pointed out a fact, which she subsequently confirmed. She was under no obligation to disclose her apparent taking of money under false pretenses and I am under no obligation to support (emotionally or financially) law breakers who use taxpayer money for their own personal benefit. I have no qualms about using public money to help those truly in need, but I'll be damned if I will support some idiot's kids so she can lie to the authorities and use her own money to get a boob job for her own self-gratification!

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Sorry--I can't understand your illiterate and incomprehensible post. I have done nothing but write positive comments to you up until a few minutes ago when I pointed out the irony of your statement above' date=' swiping at another poster.

I don't know why the welfare cheat (she wrote that she was taking public aid for her kids while squirreling away her own money for a boob job) chose to leave the forum, but it was her choice. Perhaps she had embarrassed herself by her posts, laying out all her troubles for everyone to see. That was her choice too.

I simply pointed out a fact, which she subsequently confirmed. She was under no obligation to disclose her apparent taking of money under false pretenses and I am under no obligation to support (emotionally or financially) law breakers who use taxpayer money for their own personal benefit. I have no qualms about using public money to help those truly in need, but I'll be damned if I will support some idiot's kids so she can lie to the authorities and use her own money to get a boob job for her own self-gratification![/quote']

Good night you are invisible too me and anyone that agree with you done ever chatting with you on here

Mz Shay

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Suit yourself, but if you are going to complain about someone or something, it is helpful if you can explain and stand up for your opinion.

No need to be defensive, just explain your view so the other person can understand your position and you can hopefully reach an understanding. Have a nice evening!

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Suit yourself' date=' but if you are going to complain about someone or something, it is helpful if you can explain and stand up for your opinion.

No need to be defensive, just explain your view so the other person can understand your position and you can hopefully reach an understanding. Have a nice evening![/quote']

Whatever she choose to do is her business you not paying for it so why down her like that you must be miserable in your life outside of this site really I'm not gonna explain anything to you and no one else thats not what this site if for who are you first no one goodnight

Mz Shay

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On the contrary, there is a very good likelihood that as a taxpayer, I am indeed footing part of the bill for the public aid money used to take care of her kids, so yes, I do think I have a right to be pissed. And you should be too if you are a taxpayer. My opinion is based solely on the facts and statements in her own posts. If there are other mitigating facts, she did not include them.

Yes, you are right that what she chooses to do with her own money is her business, except when she is qualifying for public aid to pay for her family's necessities. That aid requires people to use their own money to support their own families and then any unmet needs beyond their resources are paid by public aid. That rules out luxuries like cosmetic surgery. In order to get public aid, she would normally have to fill out forms listing the money and assets she has available to meet her family's expenses and then sign a statement that says it is a true account of all her assets. If she applied for aid and told them she had money set aside for breast surgery, they would almost certainly refuse her request for aid and tell her to first use her own savings to buy food and supplies for her kids. No vanity surgery allowed on welfare. That's the law, not my opinion. On the other hand, if she applied for aid and didn't tell them she had thousands of dollars in hidden savings, then she has committed fraud.

I'm sorry the woman is in such a difficult place in her life and I truly hope she gets all the help she needs, but that does not excuse her taking advantage of other people for purposes of her own vanity.

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Well I did didn't need yo feedback you didn't have to respond at all Mz Shay
seriously? This is public forum. When profanities offend me, I'll react.

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seriously? This is public forum. When profanities offend me' date=' I'll react.[/quote']

Good for you goodnight

Mz Shay

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seriously? This is public forum. When profanities offend me' date=' I'll react.[/quote']

Listen this has nothing to do with you I'm grown I was talking to turn the page ok so please let's not go back and fourth thisssss has nothing to do with you thank for your comment but you don't know all the facts of why I said that

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Sorry--I can't understand your illiterate and incomprehensible post. I have done nothing but write positive comments to you up until a few minutes ago when I pointed out the irony of your statement above, swiping at another poster.

I don't know why the welfare cheat (she wrote that she was taking public aid for her kids while squirreling away her own money for a boob job) chose to leave the forum, but it was her choice. Perhaps she had embarrassed herself by her posts, laying out all her troubles for everyone to see. That was her choice too.

I simply pointed out a fact, which she subsequently confirmed. She was under no obligation to disclose her apparent taking of money under false pretenses and I am under no obligation to support (emotionally or financially) law breakers who use taxpayer money for their own personal benefit. I have no qualms about using public money to help those truly in need, but I'll be damned if I will support some idiot's kids so she can lie to the authorities and use her own money to get a boob job for her own self-gratification!

First off this is a place for support!!! If someone chooses to post their business it's not you to judge them. You are very rude and out of place with your smart ass comments. How the hell can you judge people when you were fat at one time and were judged just like the rest of us? I really think you need to look in the mirror and get your attitude in check!! Because right now you are a snobby person and if I knew you in person I would have smacked you a few times after reading your posts. Then asked you what the hell is your problem. It's pretty messed up people are writing whole posts about you because of how you portray yourself. Now how about this if you can't say something nice then don't say nothing at all!!And just fyi you can respond something smart if you want to but you don't effect me. Nothing you say will hurt me because I could give a care less about you. You don't know me or anyone else on here for that matter. Quit hiding behind a empty profile and come out of the closet. We are here to get support and obviously you aren't. So go on your merry little way and have a nice life with your pouch..

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Im not even going to waste my time or energy on someone who I dont think deserves it.... I will just do what I've been doing the past couple days... keep an eye on the posts.... and report.... maybe if enough people do the same something will be done .... she obviously has some issues that extend way beyond wls....

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Im not even going to waste my time or energy on someone who I dont think deserves it.... I will just do what I've been doing the past couple days... keep an eye on the posts.... and report.... maybe if enough people do the same something will be done .... she obviously has some issues that extend way beyond wls....

That is very true! Something's not right. I wasn't going to say anything but she has crossed the line more than once. And I'm sure a bunch of people have been reporting the comments but nothing is being done. She either needs to shape up or ship out. No one wants the negativity or the drama! This is a support site and that's what should be going on. Support not judgement!! :)

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