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My two cents......is I can say with 100% confidence I have NEVER BULLYED ANYONE ON HERE!!! I answer those I believe I can help. But welcome to the forum I see your new. :)

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Hi' date=' I'm new here and I have to say that you are all guilty of bullying. I've been following all of the threads on here for a while and they're are some of you that just can't take a heartfelt appology at face value. Personally, I don't think she should have apologized, maybe that kid needed to be pulled off the teet for a minute. In any event, why don't you practice what you preach. Just my two cents.[/quote']

Bloody hell. I love how people throw out the "bully" comment every time someone says something they don't like. At this point it's kinda like crying wolf.

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To the newer folks:

This is a public forum, hence, if you post here be prepared to answer for what you have said. As others have said, treat people as you would like to be treated, and if you dish it out, be prepared to take it. If you can't deal with that then public posting is probably not the best pastime for you.

Now, back to the food porn.....

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Actually, *I* am the queen

No, you are a princess, says so right next to your name.....;)

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Hi' date=' I'm new here and I have to say that you are all guilty of bullying. I've been following all of the threads on here for a while and they're are some of you that just can't take a heartfelt appology at face value. Personally, I don't think she should have apologized, maybe that kid needed to be pulled off the teet for a minute. In any event, why don't you practice what you preach. Just my two cents.[/quote']

New here?? Joined just to say this??

Should we play a guessing game as to who you are?? :P

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To the newer folks: This is a public forum' date=' hence, if you post here be prepared to answer for what you have said. As others have said, treat people as you would like to be treated, and if you dish it out, be prepared to take it. If you can't deal with that then public posting is probably not the best pastime for you. Now, back to the food porn.....[/quote']

Oh food porn! Sorry folks I didn't realize we were at that point with the thread yet! :P

Carry on!

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I only fall on chocolate. That's how I KNOW it wasn't a donut. It was a brownie.

ummm can you please, please, please find a pic with brown lipstick!!!!???? It will complete your brown smear and you will not hafta answer hahaha

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Had a good cry and now I feel better. If you read my post I said I already appologized for it.. how many times should I have to own it? And for someone who tells everyone they dont judge or want conflict iamfatpat seems insistant on judging me and stirring it up. I certainly hope everyone had fun ripping me a new one at my expense. I was already struggling and now I just feel like total and complete crap. So' date=' fatpat abd laura... congradulations... I give up... you are the queens of this blog and I am nothing. Hope that's what you wanted to hear. And I hope for your sake you don't ever say something stupid when someone like you is around because you all were so hurtful to me tonight that I just don't giva a ... about anything anymore!!![/quote']

Honey don't give Anyone in cyberspace that much power over you. And you don't have to keep apologizing. You think that just because we're all sleevers makes us nice people......well it don't. And you still having people saying things to make themselves feel better.

I went through this last week when I posted about my daughter, people gave their unwanted opinion even after i figured it out....I just wanted to vent, that's all. Anyway they will not stop me from being a part of this group for like you I found it very helpful and I even talk to people through private messages.

Don't leave this group....do you baby! No one else can do it for you.

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I think if a stranger flat out called me an a**hole for venting my struggles' date=' apology or not, I would think they sucked as a person! Lol that was really bold.....right?[/quote']

Yes. :)

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Hi' date=' I'm new here and I have to say that you are all guilty of bullying. I've been following all of the threads on here for a while and they're are some of you that just can't take a heartfelt appology at face value. Personally, I don't think she should have apologized, maybe that kid needed to be pulled off the teet for a minute. In any event, why don't you practice what you preach. Just my two cents.[/quote']

I have to disagree. The fact that yes, she tried to apologize half heartedly..but then went and created not one but two threads in here complaining about what had just taken place..clearly scream attention of some sort.

Her op in the original thread was pretty far off base and profanity filled. No one deserves that sort of response.

I've read a lot of stuff and from what I've seen, the only time people are ran over like this is when they clearly don't approach topics with respect regardless of the topic. Everyone is here for some sort of support..emotions are high at times. Don't comment if you can't take all opinions that you KNOW will follow your own post.

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I have to disagree. The fact that yes' date=' she tried to apologize half heartedly..but then went and created not one but two threads in here complaining about what had just taken place..clearly scream attention of some sort.

Her op in the original thread was pretty far off base and profanity filled. No one deserves that sort of response.

I've read a lot of stuff and from what I've seen, the only time people are ran over like this is when they clearly don't approach topics with respect regardless of the topic. Everyone is here for some sort of support..emotions are high at times. Don't comment if you can't take all opinions that you KNOW will follow your own post.

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Not sure but I think that's the OP lol

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Not sure but I think that's the OP lol

Not me no..what I quoted yeah..which is why I said what I did. :)

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Entering the room with a box of donuts as a peace offering.. Can't we all just get along?

Edited by soocalchic

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Not me no..what I quoted yeah..which is why I said what I did. :)

Lol yea that's what I meant

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