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Entering the room with a box of donuts as a peace offering.. Can't we all just get along?

Enabling again?? :P

And you obviously didn't see the now three threads this has jumped across!

It's going to take more than donuts! :D

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Eatumup... thanks. Apparently I stayed up too late and I have been overly emotional because what I should have said to those of you who think it's fun to gang up on me is F.U.

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Enabling again?? :P And you obviously didn't see the now three threads this has jumped across! It's going to take more than donuts! :D
I must come up with a plan., dammit maybe eclairs might work. Where are the MODERATORS when you need them?? Close this thread already

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I must come up with a plan.' date=' dammit maybe eclairs might work. Where are the MODERATORS when you need them?? Close this thread already[/quote']

Fritters?? Fritters always work I can us a few to shove up that woman's ... I mean to pass out to friends!

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Do you guys know that Old McDonald was a bad speller?

(Bad jokes can kill threads, I've done it many times...unintentionally)

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Fritters?? Fritters always work I can us a few to shove up that woman's ... I mean to pass out to friends!
No sh it some Hushpuppies would be amazing.. Keep that pie hole stuffed.. Wait a minute did somebody say pie? Gosh I'm bad

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On every forum, there are one or two (or three) who opinionate like world experts, criticise others and yes, bully others. I name no names, but maybe you recognise yourself. I've read all of these topics and threads shaking my head. There are some people to whom I will NEVER reply, because I don't like the snide, catty and spiteful tone of their comments to others. And as for hijacking this thread with "food porn", well, to me just looks like more bullying.

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On every forum' date=' there are one or two (or three) who opinionate like world experts, criticise others and yes, bully others. I name no names, but maybe you recognise yourself. I've read all of these topics and threads shaking my head. There are some people to whom I will NEVER reply, because I don't like the snide, catty and spiteful tone of their comments to others. And as for hijacking this thread with "food porn", well, to me just looks like more bullying.[/quote'] stop being a finger pointer that makes you no better.. now can we just smile now thank you

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I think the food porn was an attempt by some to alleviate some of the tension..

But if you wish for this thread to continue so the op can spout about the injustices she received as she was verbally attacking someone reaching out for help?

Have at it..

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Just like high school...is it that only certain people get to be rude and snarky and no one calls them on it? Is it determined by how long you've been around? How popular you are? God forbid, how you look-no pic:-)? Just food for thought...

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...... And as for hijacking this thread with "food porn"' date=' well, to me just looks like more bullying.[/quote']

Sweet baby jeezus on a mountain top. Are you kidding? Injecting humor in a ridiculous thread is bullying?

Here's a news flash people. Just because your feelings got hurt, or someone didn't coddle you....doesn't mean they are bullying you. Sometimes it just means they don't buy your bullshit.

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Sweet baby jeezus on a mountain top. Are you kidding? Injecting humor in a ridiculous thread is bullying? Here's a news flash people. Just because your feelings got hurt' date=' or someone didn't coddle you....doesn't mean they are bullying you. Sometimes it just means they don't buy your bullshit.[/quote'] Amen!!!!!!

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Just like high school...is it that only certain people get to be rude and snarky and no one calls them on it? Is it determined by how long you've been around? How popular you are? God forbid, how you look-no pic:-)? Just food for thought...

Here's some more food. You just cast the entire 50,000 plus membership here as spineless sheeple who check the likes leaders before they dare to confront. Did it occur to you that a high likes number could possibly indicate a great deal of caring and support given over an extended period of time?

The people I believe you are referring to earned their popularity by answering the same questions with compassion over and over and over. The popular kids in High School many times worked hard to achieve. Then we had the lazy butts like me who would rather criticize and slander than pitch in and help.

It is not a matter of popularity, it is a matter of earned respect.

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