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Hi Everyone,

I've absolutely fallen in love with a lot of you and have kept you in my prayers as you go along your journies.

My surgery is March 12th and I've never been in the hospital for anything since the day I was born and that was 36 years ago :myscared:

Please say a special prayer for my safety and recovery. The Word of God says when two or more agree as touching anything, He is in our midst. I truly need and ask for your prayers.

Love You all to pieces!!!!!

Desi

:amen:

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desiree1070....you are in my prayers as you embark on your journey everything will be ok you just have to think positive..god bless

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You're young and healthy and you'll do great in surgery. It's normal to be nervous but going into surgery with an "I'm going to ace this" kind of attitude has been shown to speed recovery rates. Read all the posts you can and ask any questions you might have.

When you have your pre-op testing, you'll meet with the anesthesiologist and THAT is the person who is in charge of the operating room, NOT the surgeon. Talk honestly with the anesthesiologist and ask questions. You'll feel a LOT better after that meeting.

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I will enter into agreement with you. I was very worried before my surgery too. I am about your age (35) and this was my first real surgery. I had been in the hospital, I have 2 kids, and I had my tonsils taken out, but never something like this. I am here to tell you that things were not as bad as I had imagined. In fact, the worst part was waiting for the anesthesia (Spell check) to wear off. Oh, and being asked to drink some nasty liquid for an xray a few hours post-op. Just take it easy and you'll be fine.

I will be praying for you!

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Oh, and being asked to drink some nasty liquid for an xray a few hours post-op. Just take it easy and you'll be fine.

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Ok.. tell me about this nasty liquid. How much do they ask you to drink? I've had an upper gi before and literally gagged on the stuff they make you drink. Would you believe this and being sick from the anesthetic afterwards are the only two things I dread about the surgery??:myscared:

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oh wow! Sorry! What was meant to help didn't. Really, don't stress the liquid. It tastes nasty but you really only have to sip it. It is an upper GI, I didn't really want to say that because many people freak about that thick milky stuff that taste like chalk. This isn't that. It is a thin, bitter tasting liquid. I think it is supposed to taste like lemon-lime but doesn't. Also, all you have to do is stand there in front of the machine and sip while they look. The anesthesia was bad for me because I am ultra sensitive to any medication. Tylenol makes me sleep (ugh!). I would be happy to answer any questions and will give you the straightest answer possible. All in all, I would do it 100 times over. I have lost a little more than 50 lbs and I am feeling great. It is so worth the nasty little drink.

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Can you hold your nose when you sip it?? :myscared: I have only had one surgery ( out of 4) when I have not been sick to my stomach upon waking up. I'm ultra sensitive to it I guess. Did you have that problem? I know they give you something for tummy upset with the anesthesia. I just don't know if it will work that good for me.

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We go to see our surgeon March 15th. I hope to get a surgery date at that time. Both hubby and I will be banded. Each day that goes by we realize more and more that this is what we need to do to have a healthier life ahead of us. We are both very much excited about that prospect.

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I was very proud of myself that I did not throw up, I had "gone under" twice before this and woke up throwing up and then blacking out. This time was different. I talked to the anesthes...oh bother, the medicine man, and he gave me something for my tummy before I even woke up. He then ordered that I could have this same stuff whenever I felt like I was going to need it. I only needed it twice after, and it really controlled this feeling.

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sorry I really didn't address your question about holding your nose. I can't see why not, other than I had oxygen tubes up my nose, I think that is standard, not because I had any issues.

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I was very proud of myself that I did not throw up, I had "gone under" twice before this and woke up throwing up and then blacking out. This time was different. I talked to the anesthes...oh bother, the medicine man, and he gave me something for my tummy before I even woke up. He then ordered that I could have this same stuff whenever I felt like I was going to need it. I only needed it twice after, and it really controlled this feeling.

Excellent.. that is just what I needed to hear! Hopefully my anesthei..... the sleepy time guy, will do the same for me.

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Thanks for answering my questions so quickly! I'm headed to bed now. Congrats on your weight loss. :clap2: You must be very proud!! I can't wait to be able to say the same thing!

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      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

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