I was banded in oct 2010 had RNY jan 2013 pre band I was 348 7 months post RNY 225 and the family says that's enough but I want to see 199 just once in my life and think I can do it the weight loss has slowed down in the past few weeks but I could care less about food and have to make my self eat so I want to keep going but everyone around me say to stop what should I do ???

Whatever your doctor says is healthy! Be safe

I had exactly the same problem. I very intentionally never set a weight goal. My focus was on following the protocol as closely to the letter as I possibly could. I made a decision from the very beginning that my body would know when it was at the weight that it needed to be at. And that's exactly what happened. I followed the protocol and when my weight loss stabilized, that was the number. Your family and friends have the very best of intentions. You gotta love 'em. But your body and your doctor will give you healthy, objective feedback. You're gonna love the new you!!