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I'm 19 and my surgery will most likely be in October. My moms is next week and she's super supportive of me as well as my friends and the rest if my family, but no one else really understands!

I'm frustrated I'm not losing weight before the surgery because I have to lose 5-10%.

I could use some friends going through this too!

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Did the surgeon give you a diet plan?

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Did the surgeon give you a diet plan?

I have to do a 2 week liquid diet before surgery. I am on day 7/8 day, unsure but each dr. Is different. So of us have to do a laxative drink or something the night before but my dr. Didn't tell me about this. The liquid diet is hard but I am hanging in there. It will be worth it in the end. Just ask your dr. To make sure.

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Maybe to show support do half the liquid diet or the whole thing with her..just to give you a jump start and

know what you will be getting yourself into.

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I hate the requirement of having to lose 5-10% before surgery. Most very heavy people know how to lose weight, it is the keeping it off part that is usually the problem. I understand nearing to clear the space near the liver but that should be covered in the 2 week pre-op liquid diet most people have to do.

Best of luck to you in losing the weight, it sucks, but believe me, it is worth it and I am only 3 weeks post op!

Kim

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Yeah I get it and feel the same way, and I am trying to eat healthy, and work out and stuff but sometimes it's hard because I have such a crazy schedule right now.

Also, I haven't talked to my nutritionist yet, but I decided on doing a half liquid diet (2 Protein shakes 1 meal) or a while. I'm really excited! But my mom was doing it right before her actual two week liquid diet, and she said it helped a lot!

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I'm 19 and my surgery will most likely be in October. My moms is next week and she's super supportive of me as well as my friends and the rest if my family' date=' but no one else really understands!

I'm frustrated I'm not losing weight before the surgery because I have to lose 5-10%.

I could use some friends going through this too![/quote']

Focus on eating low fat, low sugar diet as that is what you will do post surgery. My nut had me cut out something new each month, such as soda, sweets, fried foods, alcohol, smoking,etc. If you do it slowly, it isn't so hard. I had all of the unhealthy food items off my menu before surgery, so now, post op, the choices seems natural. Good luck to you!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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