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41 but look 31' date=' lol. What you think?[/quote']

You look very handsome in that pic. Thanks for joining us. 40 here.

Gen :-) 12/15/12

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Single... And ready to start looking... So watch out world! :0)

After I'm fully recouped from this last surgery (man it was a butt kicker) and have my life back on track, (1 1/2 month tops). I'll be on the prowl with you girl, grrrrawl :-)

Gen :-) 12/15/12

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Just checking in on all the single folks! I'm still single, but I did go on a date a few weeks ago. It was so fun getting ready and having the excited, nervous feeling of a first date. I had a great night. Hears to all us single folks... May love find us all!

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I could have a FWB' date=' 25 yo and father of 2, but I don't want to settle for something like that. He makes me a cougar, lol.

Gen :-) 12/15/12[/quote']

Lmbo love reading the single board.

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Lol....but he's LOTS of fun!!!! And it's kinda nice not to worry about the 'stuff' that goes on with a real relationship for a while. Right now I get to be a bit selfish and focus on my needs and getting through this surgery' date=' I don't have to worry about him. For NOW it works...it won't work forever. But damn he looks good naked :/

HW 312, pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 251, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 251[/quote']

Fresh naughty lady Lolz

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Fresh naughty lady Lolz

Yeah we killed off the friends with benefits thing about 2 months ago....damn I miss the benefits!!!!

HW 312, pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 255, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 217.2

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Yeah we killed off the friends with benefits thing about 2 months ago....damn I miss the benefits!!!!

HW 312' date=' pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 255, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 217.2[/quote']

Awww it's ok in due time more actions will come

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Awww it's ok in due time more actions will come

Lol, maybe, I'm kinda scary naked these days though!!!! May have to blind fold any potential partners first!!!!

HW 312, pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 217.2

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Lol' date=' maybe, I'm kinda scary naked these days though!!!! May have to blind fold any potential partners first!!!!

HW 312, pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 217.2[/quote']

Lmbo silly believe it or not I feel like that & I show my hubby even if he gets on my nervous he is my only partner & I like sharing my thoughts & such but he tells me it's in my mind I have a nice body. He says I might still think I'm fat inside but I'm not. I'm really slim & I should just eat & don't worry about my body I manage to be skinny which is what I wanted to do but if surgery will make me happy he doesn't agree with it but if that's what will make me happy do it so I stop complaining.

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Lol, maybe, I'm kinda scary naked these days though!!!! May have to blind fold any potential partners first!!!!

HW 312, pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 217.2

OMG, don't even want to go there!

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Just thought I'd share: now that I am 50% to my goal weight, I find I'm a lot pickier about who I date, and don't mind saying so when they go on a little too long about their ex, or are smothering me, or whatever. Welcome back, self-esteem!

How are you all doing, and how is your weight loss affecting your relationships (for better or for worse)?

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I'm one of the singles too. My now ex fiancé broke it off in March, exactly 6 months before the day we were to get married. Nice huh? Said he felt pushed into our engagement...but I don't recall holding a gun to his head and making him buy the ring. We were together 4 years, engaged and living together for 2. He was completely not supportive about my RNY anyway. Was afraid I'd get hot and leave him. Ridiculous.

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I'm one of the singles too. My now ex fiancé broke it off in March' date=' exactly 6 months before the day we were to get married. Nice huh? Said he felt pushed into our engagement...but I don't recall holding a gun to his head and making him buy the ring. We were together 4 years, engaged and living together for 2. He was completely not supportive about my RNY anyway. Was afraid I'd get hot and leave him. Ridiculous.[/quote']

Sounds like you are better off.

highest weight: 380<br />date of surgery weight: 376<br />current weight 349

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