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Hey Bandsters!!! I'm HOME. Surgery went extremely good. No pain.. just some pressure like I got punched in the stomach. But no problems with nausea and I was up and walking LOTS!! Got released this morning and after a 4 hour drive (with DH of course) I'm home and goingto go put my jammies on and veg out for the rest of the day. I'm not hungry at all. I've had some Crystal light today and that's it. I'll have some broth for supper and a sugar free popsicle for a treat.

Thanks for all your prayers yesterday. I even got a phone call at the hospital from one of the people on here!!

Will write more later when I'm rested.

Judy

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Hello all..

I'm still here...Just not online as much..

I have managed to read up to date & will get more involved with you all when I get home, I don't have the privacy here...

SARA MOS >>>> LOVE LOVE the charm idea... I am a cool jewellery freak...THANK YOU!!!

Am on last day of Florida visit. Started pre op diet on sat...Sun had easter dinner with family so I started again monday... Not really liking not having meals to look forward to. Am doing the shakes, fruit & veg & Water but I've included a salad (just greens) and some hummus to keep me sane...I also had a spoon of LF cottage cheese... For God's sake I'm on a holidays!!

:hungry: :hungry: :hungry: :hungry: :hungry: :hungry: :hungry: :hungry: :hungry: :hungry: :hungry: :hungry: :hungry:

I know what I'm like & it's totally unrealistic to think I could do shakes alone during my vacay!! I am being good, albeit suiting myself by adding green salads (shoot Me!)

Mc Donald's is like a leach on my brain... not enough to give in but it's there...why?

I have lost one pound... I would normally gain 7-10 lbs being here (Yes, really!!) Best Ice Cream in the world = Palm Beach Ice Cream Parlour ...

So I like to congratulate myself with the neurotic notion that I have SAVED myself from having to loose 11....Puh-lease! Am I right?:nervous :nervous :nervous

I haven't touched a drop of alcohol & haven't eaten anything else bad despite my scary episodes of hunger fear!!! What?

WHY DO I FEAR HUNGER??!! Apparantly it's a dieter's mentality to FEAR hunger...If we learn to overcome this fear we become empowered.

The test is to go deliberatly without food for 8 hours to allow yourself to go in & out of states of hunger & the associations of it..

Now, this was an article in Oprah's O magazine based on a woman called Judith Beck & her diet solution : how to train your brain to think like a thin person.... Makes sense but as usual..

Yeah, easier said than done ...practicing this really showed me how AFRAID of hunger I am... I haven't managed to do it yet!!!

I AM SCARED EVERYBODY!!! Will I be able to overcome my food behavioural difficulties ever???

:help:

KAT817... As a seasoned bandster..can you re-assure me? What happens in life after banding?

HOLY SHEPHARD's PIE!!! I just looked at my ticker ...5 days!! OMG

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... and everyone in Texas loves James Avery jewelry! ...
...It gets soooooo hot in Houston that you almost HAVE to have a gym...

TerriDoodle... I am in Houston, too! Just outside really, in Katy. So I have to agree with you on everyone here loving James Avery (started my first charm Bracelet when I was 10 or 11) and also about weather here means you gotta join a gym!

I actually live a block away from LifeTime Fitness, so I know I will see tons of people there that I know, and I just can't waddle my way in right now!!!!:D

Would consider joining Curves right now, not embarrassed there, but I need a place with child care. So, I 'll just keep walking 1 mile/eveings with my double stroller... for now.

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You did it! You are now in bandland!!:clap2: I can't wait. Thanks for the update. Get some rest!!:notagree I am glad you arent feeling bad.

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You did it! You are now in bandland!!:clap2: I can't wait. Thanks for the update. Get some rest!!:notagree I am glad you arent feeling bad.

Teachlady,

That was for you but for some reason your pic/name did not appear! :speechles

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Gosh Panda,

youve nearly lost 50lbs!!!!!!!!!!!!

That is INCREDIBLE!!!!!!!!!!! WELL DONE!!!!!!!!!

Thank you. I've been really dedicated to the diet since 3 months before surgery...only "cheated" a handful of times. With that and doing thinks like parking further out, trying to get my 10-15 min of exercise a day in...it's really blown me away...i mean...I knew the number kept going up as I went along, but it wasn't until today that it dawned on me....."oh my gosh.......................................i'm 6 short of 50"....It just about floored me......

I'm just praying I can keep up the good work! LOL. They had a lunch at work today and the leftovers were brought into the break room....AFTER i'd had lunch already (wouldn't ya know)...but it was better that way...even though I could have had a sandwich minus the bread and lettuce, they had goodies I was oogling, but should not have had and would have been hard pressed to resist if I hadn't already eaten....won't go into details, but lets put it this way, 1.) starchy vegie i LOVE in 'salad' form, white flour stuff, lots of fructose, and also had something with more white flour+sugarX100. :-D ((doesn't sound so appetizing when you break those foods down into what they're really made of! LOL))

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Panda,

Can u repost your pic or send the link to me. Everyone is talking about it and I want to see so I can get excited too.... Thanks!

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Judy,

Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Welcome to BandLand!!!!!!!!!!!

Rent some chick flicks, kick back and take it easy. Looking forward to more of your updates!!!

Pamela

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It's so exciting to see all of you newly banded home and feeling "great"!!!!!! Right???????? Positive thoughts!!!!!

This morning I met NWJenny - one of your thread members - who will have her band surgery on the 22nd..................we both live in the Portland, OR area and discovered we attend the same gym. I have adopted her as my "band daughter" - we had a wonderful sweaty hug and chat for over an hour between our classes at our gym. I'm getting her to try out my favorite class (NIA) on Sat morning................again I'm extending an invitation to you all to join our "April Bandits Exercise Challenge" - search for it...........it's a great way to utilize this terrific bunch of people who are going thru all the same experiences and are becoming healthy and

thin(er)!!!!!

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Congratulation Teachlady, glad to see you made it back and not regretting it or worried about the pain :D

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I did my pre-op today. Oh man..up at 4am, got there and did my testing, pre-paid everyone (bye bye money to buy a new car), wasn't too bad.. Got a lecture by one of the nurses about quitting smoking. I was cynical, and she was giving me statistics about losing 7 seconds every cigarette or something.. and I said 'Yeah but on the bright side, I don't want to be in a nursing home in diapers, so it only cuts off the bad years'. hehehe. I plan to quit before I have kids, which will be in the next couple of years, so.. let me enjoy them now damn it!! :)

Went to lunch with a friend that lives in Anniston, she showed me the town and where my hotel is. Went back for my pre-op meeting with the surgeon. Gosh he is so nice, I can't even describe it. They answered all the questions I had written down and accumulated.. They gave me a headache medicine for caffein withdrawal and food withdrawal (I DIDN'T EVEN ASK FOR IT!!), was ironic since I've been complaining to everyone about the caffein Migraines I've been getting. They also gave me the Rx for liquid lortab to fill now, but my pharmacy said they carry the generic liquid form, so that's alright with me. I still have to run to a store Thursday (Don't want to go Friday-- that's when I start clear liquid diet, might kill me to shop for food when I can't eat anything) to get the last few things I haven't found yet.

I FOUND OUT... :help: They will be doing a catheder!! She says I will be asleep when they put it in (I don't want anyone down there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..plus those issues about me PMSing waaaaah :think )

And she said it won't hurt pulling out, it's just 'uncomfortable'. I'm officially scared now.. not about the surgery but about the catheder.. why oh why..can't I just swear not to drink anything for 24 hours?? :help:

Anyway... soon, lost a little enthusiasm due to discovering this.

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I am so glad you posted how it went!! And, that it went so well for you! If you can, post every day so I can read how you are doing. Today has been better for me on the liquid diet, my 3rd day! Not so hungry today, but some, and I noticed it dont matter where ya go, what ya watch on t.v., it is always about food, that is all people talk about!! I can do this!!! My surgery is on Monday like Lauria. She gets to eat regular good almost all week, not fair!!!! Oh well, I can do this, I just keep tellin myself. :nervous

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Laura,

Don't worry about the catheter. I was WAY freaked out about it too, but I swear, I couldn't even feel it at all. It was nice to not have to get up to pee, you have soooooooo much fluids pumped into you during surgery and it just comes out. You don't feel anything. The hardest part was walking around w/ the bag hanging from the IV thingy. The next morning, when she came in to take it out, I SWEAR, YOU CAN'T FEEL IT. You might feel a slight pressure when she pulls the tube out. I PROMISE!!! It is so much easier for women.

GOOD LUCK!

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Margi- Yes, I feel fortunate about the diet they have me on, after hearing what some people have to go through. I really can't imagine. I tried liquid diet once for dieting, and didn't make it 24 hours. I have to do it Saturday&Sunday and that's going to be hard enough.. Good luck, stay strong!! We're almost there! :D :clap2:

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Laura....I am getting nervous about everything too! They didn't mention a catheder at my pre-op so I don't guess I will have one....might not be a bad idea from the sound of it though.

I am totally struggling with the 2 week liquid pre-op diet....not being very successful at it. I do great until dinner time and then tend to break weak. Tomorrow is a new day....

The more I think about Monday, the more nervous I get!

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      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

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