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My Surgery For 9/12 Was Unsucessful...i'm Sad.



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Walk, Rest, and Sip just like you would have done after the other surgery. This was just a trial run. Your journey will continue (THANK GOD) you are here. Take this time to heal and continue preparing. May God bless you real big.

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Be strong no matter....god bless you..he pulled you out to set you aside for a greater plan. Trust you will get through this

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TY Milan. My family from Puerto Rico was crying for me. I told them to keep the faith in me and to send me their prayers. I've been so sore all day because the hospital kept me for those extra 2 days and the nurses kept giving me Heparin injections for the blood clots. Is incredible how I look myself in the mirror to see those 6 incisions closed up with those staples and the surgery was never done. Is scary to think I could of not been here today.

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Please be happy that they stopped in time before things got worse!! It is much better to be bigger and alive than skinny and dead. Hopefully they can figure out what went wrong and everything will got fine in the future.

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Everything happens for a reason & now you have a better chance if everything being perfect!

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Isla so sorry you had to go through that. Sounds like your surgeon is still willing to do the surgery and is encouraging you to lost additional weight so it will be safer for you. You can do it and your new surgery date will be here before you know it. :) Keep posting and reading and joining in. We're all in the same weight lost boat and enjoy each others company as well as help one another with encouragement and friendship. Sending speedy recovery wishes your way!

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I'm glad you are ok . I know that your disappointed but we are all here to support you and make you giggle laugh and fart...... The doctor wants to make sure your ok for the next round, your here for a reason.gods not sleeping . Keep the faith relax I'll be thinking of you . Your in my thoughts and prayers.

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My surgery was unsucessful...I was admitted at 8:30 am in the morning and ready for 9:30 am. The surgeon made 6 incision outside my stomach area and inserted the larpoc. equipment with air. Then they had to abort the srugery because my heart became weak and my heart rate was so low. My blood pressure went down to 70/40. They pulled the plug and the next thing I knew my surgeon was in the recovery room and told me that he almost lost me because of my heart and pressure. I was devastated and I started to cry. I don't understand why this happened to me? My Cardiologist told me that I was fit to do this surgery and he cleared me. After that they kept me in the hospital for evaluation. They ran some tests on me. They took many blood drawing' date=' a heart cat scan, and 2D echo. All came out negative. Even though the procedure wasn't done I was in pain and haven't eaten for 3 three days. Today they discharge me and I have mild gatric pain. The doctor said to me to schedule an appointment for Monday to discuss my condition and to reschdule my surgery. I'am so hurt and tramatized I don't know what to do now. I guess it was bad luck for me. I'm home know and I'm still crying. I can't believe I had a brush with death.[/quote']

Im really sorry to hear about ur ordeal have you had any previous surgeries

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Wow, you have already gone through a lot! Keep your head up. Do what the dr says and you will do great. Just think, this upset will have you more prepared for the next time you have the surgery. Try and exercise to get that heart in shape for the next go round:) we are all here for u!

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I'm glad you are ok

There is no triumph without struggle

Everything in its own time

Good luck and god bless

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Sorry things didn't work out for you but hay what good is WLS if your not around to enjoy it.

Someone said second time around is a charm right keep your spirits up you will get your chance to join the losing team.

Just trying to cheer you up you sound like you need it.

You have a great doctor that did what was best at the time of surgery

Hang in there it will be all right

Surgery Anniversary 7/30/12

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Omg that is so scary! I'm glad they were smart about it and stopped the surgery, but I can't even imagine how disappointed you must be. So what's the next step?

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Glad your okay' date=' but i was just curious did they have you on liquid diet beforehand?[/quote']

I statrted with 278lbs and went down to 264lbs for surgery. The doctor and dietician told me to lose 10 pounds before the surgery and they gave me a pre op diet to do. 2 days before I did liquid diet and made sure my stomach was empty. I'm going to see the doctor this week to discuss what happened that day and they need to remove my staples. I'am so depressed that all I do is cry. I hope I don't have to do all the pre testing or medical clearances all over again :-(

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Isla so sorry you had to go through that. Sounds like your surgeon is still willing to do the surgery and is encouraging you to lost additional weight so it will be safer for you. You can do it and your new surgery date will be here before you know it. :) Keep posting and reading and joining in. We're all in the same weight lost boat and enjoy each others company as well as help one another with encouragement and friendship. Sending speedy recovery wishes your way!

Very sweet of you...thank you. Right now I'm feeling better but I don't think I could go back to work this week. I tried driving today and every time I hit a pot hole I feel like my stomach is going to blow open. I'm having ear aches and I'am so depressed. I can't even eat or sleep. I have an appointment this week with the doctor to discuss what happened that day. It wasn't meant to be. But I will keep on board and I will keep posting :-)

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I'm glad you are ok . I know that your disappointed but we are all here to support you and make you giggle laugh and fart...... The doctor wants to make sure your ok for the next round' date=' your here for a reason.gods not sleeping . Keep the faith relax I'll be thinking of you . Your in my thoughts and prayers.[/quote']

Thank you...you inspire me :-)

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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