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I scheduled my consultation for Monday the ninth. I'm so excited. But really nervous. What happens during the first consultation? anyone wanna share their experiences?

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I too was nervous but my 1st consolutstion was a breeze

I filled out a lot of forms and the doctor asked me all types of questions. He took my height n weight and told me my bmi. Last question he asked me is y I want this surgey and that was 2mos ago. I have 1 more month to go to see the nutrionalist and my 1 psychiatrist appt before they send all my info to the ins company for approval ;)

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Hey before you go write down any and all questions you want answers too no matter if you think its dumd it isn't. I'm very happy for. Your on your way to a new beginning so good luck

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At my 1st consult they just had me fill out papers about history n my daily food intake. They took my height n weight n it's ur time to ask anything. They also showed me what my insurance requires n that was it! Good luck :)

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My consult is tomorrow, I'm so excited. Thank you for all the tips. I will ask all the questions ever! ;D

I don't know what's going to happen, they gave me all the patent info papers at the siminar, I filled that out last week, so I don't know what's going to happen. I think they will take my bmi and tell me what I need to do to start my journey. I'm worried that they will put me on a 6 month diet, I don't want to have to wait six months. :( I just want to get it over with so I can start my new life.

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Yup, basically what pp's said. You fill out forms, talk about previous weight loss attempts, cover what your insurance requires, what the surgeon requires, etc. It took 2 months to get my inital consult, and although my insurance customer service wouldnt give me any details as to what was required for approval, I had a huge hunch that it would require a 6m PCP monitored diet, so I started it while I waited for initial consult, and whewf! boy was I happy to hear that I got 2 months down with only 4,technically now 3,, to go! YAY!

If you do have to stick it out for a 6m diet, take it as time to change your responses to typical triggers. If,hypothetically, talking to your mom makes you want to eat the refrigerator, next time you talk to mom, stop, breathe, and then come here and vent vent vent. Doing this will become second nature and then bam! you have changed that bad behaviour!!!

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Yup, basically what pp's said. You fill out forms, talk about previous weight loss attempts, cover what your insurance requires, what the surgeon requires, etc. It took 2 months to get my inital consult, and although my insurance customer service wouldnt give me any details as to what was required for approval, I had a huge hunch that it would require a 6m PCP monitored diet, so I started it while I waited for initial consult, and whewf! boy was I happy to hear that I got 2 months down with only 4,technically now 3,, to go! YAY!

If you do have to stick it out for a 6m diet, take it as time to change your responses to typical triggers. If,hypothetically, talking to your mom makes you want to eat the refrigerator, next time you talk to mom, stop, breathe, and then come here and vent vent vent. Doing this will become second nature and then bam! you have changed that bad behaviour!!!

I love this site, because that's what I've been doing, I'f I'm hungry, I come here and look at everyone else's success, or progress, or talk to people who are having the same issues and I feel so much better.

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I have my first appointment Wednesday. Said would take 2 hrs. I am very nervous. That wont set date till ins is approved. I hope that doesn't take to long.

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I went 2 weeks ago and found out that my ins requires 3 months b4 I can submit surgery approval. I'm so excited. I took 2 weeks of Soup searching after the appt to decide it this was what I really want to do. I decided that I'm going to do it and tomorrow I start getting referrals for all the tests and specialist. The questions i asked the doctor was 1. How long he has been doing surgeries. 2. Does he do it openly or laparoscopically? 3. What was his mortality rate? 4. What was the most common complication? 5. How much support did he provide after the surgery?

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I met with the nurse, a PA and the surgeon. They gave me alot of information and asked alot of questions. They took my height and weight and determined my starting weight. Then I went to a meeting room with two other people that were just starting out. We watched a power point presentation on weight loss surgery. The last thing was meeting with the dietician and getting our pre op diet. I have to be on the medically supervised diet for 6 months because it is required by my insurance. I have an appointment with the dietician one month from the consult. At first I was upset at having to wait 6 months but I am okay with it now. It gives me time to change some of my habits and get mentally and physically ready for the surgery. This first month I have really concentrated on eliminating sugar and fried foods from my diet. I need to get going on exercise, I haven't been very consistent with getting that done. The exercise is required to help prevent blood clots when you have the surgery. The diet will help shrink your liver which makes the surgery go easier.

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My ins only needs 3mos of diet n I've been seeing a Nutritionalist for 2mos now my 3rd mo is in Aug. I go to my psych appt this Sat I'm so nervous I don't no what to do. I've been really tempted to go shoppin and get lil sun dresses one thing stoppin me is I have no cash to waste cause ill b skinny soon lol. I've been buying sugar free and low fat things. Its a different taste but iI'm sure ill get use to it. My Nutritionalist recommended I get Multi Vitamins and I've been taken them for nearly a month now my Iron n Calcium levels were low I should b fine now. They aren't chewables I'm still looking for them. I no this is not the right thread to put this one I just wanted to share with someone

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It was wonderful. If I wasn't married I would marry the surgeon Lolz. He explain in details each surgery. How long it takes also kept mentioning I will give you a new stomach the test is up to you to stick to a diet & lost weight & don't gain again.

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I am in the waiting room, waiting for them to go through my paperwork. I am still nervous. But it'll be alright, right?

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I think it's a sign, in the waiting room there is a "sparklette" Water fountain

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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