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My name is Onyx. I am 32 and as of November 2011 I weighed 360 lbs.

I started my journey here in Albuquerque, NM but my gastric bypass surgery was done at Del Sol Bariatric Hospital in El Paso, TX on April 23, 2012 by Dr. Michael Lara.

I am glad for this online support system. I know when I began the journey I had those for and against the surgery. I am happy to say those who doubted support me now.

I did this to be the Lord's testimony. In order to have any of the weight loss surgeries you have to be courageous even when you are terrified. I knew I couldn't do that without God's help. I want to be a support system to anyone in need whether surgery happens or not. It's the hardest decision I ever made but I am happy for a new chance at life.

I am happy and blessed to meet all of you and see you online! And I'm praying for everyone's strength and success! I am already among friends!

Onyx

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Welcome to the group!

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Welcome, and if things get tough always remember this is the place to go. There is always somebody who understands what you are going through. God bless!

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Welcome to the forum family!!! If you ever need to talk we are all here for you!! Congrats on going through with surgery you definitely won't regret it!!

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Welcome to the group. We are a great bunch of people.

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My name is Onyx. I am 32 and as of November 2011 I weighed 360 lbs.

I started my journey here in Albuquerque' date=' NM but my gastric bypass surgery was done at Del Sol Bariatric Hospital in El Paso, TX on April 23, 2012 by Dr. Michael Lara.

I am glad for this online support system. I know when I began the journey I had those for and against the surgery. I am happy to say those who doubted support me now.

I did this to be the Lord's testimony. In order to have any of the weight loss surgeries you have to be courageous even when you are terrified. I knew I couldn't do that without God's help. I want to be a support system to anyone in need whether surgery happens or not. It's the hardest decision I ever made but I am happy for a new chance at life.

I am happy and blessed to meet all of you and see you online! And I'm praying for everyone's strength and success! I am already among friends!

Onyx[/quote']

Amen!

This was the best decision I've ever made. Even when my Vitamin gets stuck or I forget to chew my food good enough and it gets stuck or when I'm feeling constipated because the phase of the dirt I'm in doesn't yet contain Fiber...I still have no regrets. I'm blessed that my insurance that covers little of nothing (not even my asthma meds!) has covered this surgery as well as my monthly B12 shots.

Anyways warmest of welcomes

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Welcome aboard. This is a great bunch of people on this forum. I also had my surgery April 23rd.

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As you stated, you are among friends!

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Definitely the right attitude!

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Welcome LadyLocutus! We're all here to support one another. Glad you're po

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yeesh...computer locked up. Glad you're posting and look forward to getting to know you. :)

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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