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Me mum is on me so hard wut cha eat..u nd ta eat did u hv sum Water. ..uugghh...no noooo. go away i dt wanna..I totally am appreciating the support but...I dt wanna. ..if my belly growl ill eat..until then...ill try n sip...uugghh...lawd Wut imma do...I will b goin bk to wrk soon..

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I'm sure she's trying to be supportive, but it's hard to feel like you have the food Police watching you! Hang in there :)

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It looks like you had your surgery over a month ago. You need to be eating so you get your Protein in. It's super important for long term health and even short term energy. I wouldn't want someone watching my every eating move either, so I get that, but try to get your protein in, however you do it.

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Ms fuller rn... my mother wants me to eat and drink more... I don't want it bcuz I don't hv an appetite to support more often

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I am reading and still learnin..this whole Protein thing..I'm gonna join the fitness pal..I think that's it..an track my numbers. .I no for sure its wsy low...fore I don't eat much..yesterday ws the very fitst day I hit like 32oz of liquid. .

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This mng I had the Protein Powder and Breakfast powder shake..sent me to the toilet. .I'm NOT going bk there so..ill not do them..I nd to gt a schedule. .and do it as oppose to just when ever

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I understand it's not easy. I just started on soft foods, and I am not hungry at all. Don't feel like eating. But I'm forcing myself to put food in there anyway, b/c I know I can't go without eating... it's really unhealthy. I'm trying to eat things with the highest Protein possible, so I get as much protein in even with the little amount of food I'm eating. Yeah, do some research on protein and find things that have high levels... that way when you do eat, you're getting the most out of it.

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U no I figured when I could gt ahold of food I wood b totally geeked...ha ha... tricked my ass...I'm good... less is more for me now

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I'm sure she's trying to be supportive, but it's hard to feel like you have the food Police watching you! Hang in there :)

Black Diamond

i agree with above statement

i hope you don't mind, but could you tell me where you are from???

do you have a support group you can attend???

people can help with information

are you in contact with a nutritionalist???

or your surgeon???

i see B) you have been a member for over 3 weeks on the board :)

always nice to see new smiling faces :)

keep reading the boards and you will get good information

good for you that you will start tracking with my fitness pal :)

drinking 32 ounces of Water is a great start

try hard as you can to drink more water

water is very, very important!!!

you are very smart - getting on a schedule will be helpful

as others have said - it is important to eat & drink!!! :)

sorry to say - but sometimes mom does know best :lol:

reading alot, getting information about Protein and other things is wonderful!!! :)

you'll learn many things

good luck

kathy

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I'm in chgo and nope no nut.. I spoke wit the nurse last week telling her about my findings here..and she was like the nut is here if u need her..and no this is the only support system..I'm involved with. .

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It seems as if after the surgery they pretty much kick u out and yr I n yr own

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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