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Me mum is on me so hard wut cha eat..u nd ta eat did u hv sum Water. ..uugghh...no noooo. go away i dt wanna..I totally am appreciating the support but...I dt wanna. ..if my belly growl ill eat..until then...ill try n sip...uugghh...lawd Wut imma do...I will b goin bk to wrk soon..

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I'm sure she's trying to be supportive, but it's hard to feel like you have the food Police watching you! Hang in there :)

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It looks like you had your surgery over a month ago. You need to be eating so you get your Protein in. It's super important for long term health and even short term energy. I wouldn't want someone watching my every eating move either, so I get that, but try to get your protein in, however you do it.

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Ms fuller rn... my mother wants me to eat and drink more... I don't want it bcuz I don't hv an appetite to support more often

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I am reading and still learnin..this whole Protein thing..I'm gonna join the fitness pal..I think that's it..an track my numbers. .I no for sure its wsy low...fore I don't eat much..yesterday ws the very fitst day I hit like 32oz of liquid. .

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This mng I had the Protein Powder and Breakfast powder shake..sent me to the toilet. .I'm NOT going bk there so..ill not do them..I nd to gt a schedule. .and do it as oppose to just when ever

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I understand it's not easy. I just started on soft foods, and I am not hungry at all. Don't feel like eating. But I'm forcing myself to put food in there anyway, b/c I know I can't go without eating... it's really unhealthy. I'm trying to eat things with the highest Protein possible, so I get as much protein in even with the little amount of food I'm eating. Yeah, do some research on protein and find things that have high levels... that way when you do eat, you're getting the most out of it.

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U no I figured when I could gt ahold of food I wood b totally geeked...ha ha... tricked my ass...I'm good... less is more for me now

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I'm sure she's trying to be supportive, but it's hard to feel like you have the food Police watching you! Hang in there :)

Black Diamond

i agree with above statement

i hope you don't mind, but could you tell me where you are from???

do you have a support group you can attend???

people can help with information

are you in contact with a nutritionalist???

or your surgeon???

i see B) you have been a member for over 3 weeks on the board :)

always nice to see new smiling faces :)

keep reading the boards and you will get good information

good for you that you will start tracking with my fitness pal :)

drinking 32 ounces of Water is a great start

try hard as you can to drink more water

water is very, very important!!!

you are very smart - getting on a schedule will be helpful

as others have said - it is important to eat & drink!!! :)

sorry to say - but sometimes mom does know best :lol:

reading alot, getting information about Protein and other things is wonderful!!! :)

you'll learn many things

good luck

kathy

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I'm in chgo and nope no nut.. I spoke wit the nurse last week telling her about my findings here..and she was like the nut is here if u need her..and no this is the only support system..I'm involved with. .

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It seems as if after the surgery they pretty much kick u out and yr I n yr own

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