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WE ARE HAVING A BABY!!!!!

I AM HAPPY, SCARED, NERVOUS, EXCITED.......HAPPY, JOYFUL, HAPPY!!!!!

First OB/GYN appointment is this Friday. I have tried for so long, I just can not believe( scared to believe) it's true!!

My husband and daughter are walking around with big smiles on their faces lol!!!

I am happy as well, but have this little fear in my heart that just wont die down yet.

S.N someone told me yesterday that I was no longer pretty. She felt I was prettier heavy, and now I look sick, and ordinary. Crazy thing is, she was not being mean or vicious. Her comments felt sincere. For that reason, what she said affected me. I keep replaying in my head what she said to me. I am worried that this is gonna be the open "window" to get off track.

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Hooray! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

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Whoever that was is crazy! Obviously you are healthy and look amazing!

Happy wishes for you and your family and your exciting news!

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Congratulations! And who ever said that is blind. You are beautiful!

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I can't speak to the other person's motivations, but I can tell you she is blind as a bat, and needs glasses. Seriously. You look gorgeous. Your skin glows in your pictures, you look healthy and happy. Shut down the negative voice and look for people who support and love you as you are. And CONGRATULATIONS on the baby!!

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Congratulations! And I agree, you are beautiful! A person who can deliver such a mean and viscious comment and have it seem sincere must be a true B. Even if it was true in his or her opinion, what would be the purpose of saying it other than to make you feel lousy?

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HONEY TELL HER TO KICK ROCKS WITH A PAIR OF OPEN TOE SHOES....YOU ARE HAWT!! Many people are not used to seeing the NEW you so they can only visualize what they're used to seeing...GET OVER IT BOO BECAUSE IT'S NOT COMING BACK!!

CONGRATS ON YOUR BABY!!

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WE ARE HAVING A BABY!!!!!

I AM HAPPY' date=' SCARED, NERVOUS, EXCITED.......HAPPY, JOYFUL, HAPPY!!!!!

First OB/GYN appointment is this Friday. I have tried for so long, I just can not believe( scared to believe) it's true!!

My husband and daughter are walking around with big smiles on their faces lol!!!

I am happy as well, but have this little fear in my heart that just wont die down yet.

S.N someone told me yesterday that I was no longer pretty. She felt I was prettier heavy, and now I look sick, and ordinary. Crazy thing is, she was not being mean or vicious. Her comments felt sincere. For that reason, what she said affected me. I keep replaying in my head what she said to me. I am worried that this is gonna be the open "window" to get off track.[/quote']

Some people, even some men, appreciate "plump" ladies. That's fine if you are happy with yourself and healthy. If you prefer to be healthy and thinner that's your prerogative. Don't let anyone define who you "should" be or how you "should" look.

Any time I hear someone start a sentence with "You should.." my ears turn off, because that person is about to judge me and I will give no one, this side of Heaven, that right.

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Congratulations on your pregnancy!! And I agree with everyone else, you are BEAUTIFUL!! Don't let your friend's comment (even if it was said with love) make you feel like you are not the gorgeous woman that we can see you are!

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You are beautiful!!!!

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You are gorgeous !! Congrats on your bundle of joy :-)

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How exciting! So happy for you!

Sending you many blessings and wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!

You are a gorgeous lady! Ignore the haters! They are everywhere these days!

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You guys are the best! thank you so much for your words. Took a hit when she made the comments to me, but time to shake it off :) . Thank you all for putting my mind on a better path.

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HONEY TELL HER TO KICK ROCKS WITH A PAIR OF OPEN TOE SHOES....YOU ARE HAWT!! Many people are not used to seeing the NEW you so they can only visualize what they're used to seeing...GET OVER IT BOO BECAUSE IT'S NOT COMING BACK!!

CONGRATS ON YOUR BABY!!

LOL!!!! never coming back!!!!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

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