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I would just like to congratulate everyone who has made the attempt or has completed this surgery !

However I would just like for people to keep in mind one thing ! This is a social website for us to gain and understand information on the VST ! However . No one has the right to sit and Bully anyone based on his or her experiences ! No matter race , gender , or ethnicity! It's very weird how people just come and disrespect one another on here !

I have came across several individuals and one in specific since the day I came on this site to gain knowledge . And lord knows I have not sent that B**#% to hell cause I have a little but more respect for my self and others ! But all on all my time bomb is ticking !

I think we should all be here to support one another and act like grown individuals and allow others to gain valuable information !

BOTTOM LINE IF U DoNT HAVE NOTHING NICE OR EDUCATIONAL DON'T SAY IT AT ALL

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Says the person that just told someone " just like the rest of ur race African American and ignorant."

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You have to be the biggest hypocrite ever. Weren't you the one calling out a girl on being black?!

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So calling African Americans ignorant is a nice and educational thing to say? I'm just wondering.

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I would just like to congratulate everyone who has made the attempt or has completed this surgery !

However I would just like for people to keep in mind one thing ! This is a social website for us to gain and understand information on the VST ! However . No one has the right to sit and Bully anyone based on his or her experiences ! No matter race , gender , or ethnicity! It's very weird how people just come and disrespect one another on here !

I have came across several individuals and one in specific since the day I came on this site to gain knowledge . And lord knows I have not sent that B**#% to hell cause I have a little but more respect for my self and others ! But all on all my time bomb is ticking !

I think we should all be here to support one another and act like grown individuals and allow others to gain valuable information !

BOTTOM LINE IF U DoNT HAVE NOTHING NICE OR EDUCATIONAL DON'T SAY IT AT ALL

Given your past posting and this one, perhaps your self respect is unwarranted.

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I would just like to congratulate everyone who has made the attempt or has completed this surgery !

However I would just like for people to keep in mind one thing ! This is a social website for us to gain and understand information on the VST ! However . No one has the right to sit and Bully anyone based on his or her experiences ! No matter race ' date=' gender , or ethnicity! It's very weird how people just come and disrespect one another on here !

I have came across several individuals and one in specific since the day I came on this site to gain knowledge . And lord knows I have not sent that B**#% to hell cause I have a little but more respect for my self and others ! But all on all my time bomb is ticking !

I think we should all be here to support one another and act like grown individuals and allow others to gain valuable information !

BOTTOM LINE IF U DoNT HAVE NOTHING NICE OR EDUCATIONAL DON'T SAY IT AT ALL

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I would know because I stated ethnicity in there ! But you just like the rest of ur race African American and ignorant.

What about bullies now?

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Anyone want to share a cup of broth over here on my nice comfy couch?

Only if your couch is covered in asbestos - it's about to get hot in here! :lol:

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Anyone want to share a cup of broth over here on my nice comfy couch?

Yes please!

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Far from anything listed ! Your just mad cause I don't keep my mouth shut and u could care less about anyone , u f**king right I will say what the f**k I please when I need to defend my Hispanic culture. It just sounds like everyone on here has a list of **** to say about everyone and I will say what ever the f**k I feel and further more instead of being on a social website putting all this negative energy in to **** every day try putting it in to loosing weight cause I have !!

Second of all I will put a b***h right in there place once they disrespect my MOTHER ! So there for cant take the heat get out the f**k out the kitchen

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Far from anything listed ! Your just mad cause I don't keep my mouth shut and u could care less about anyone , u f**king right I will say what the f**k I please when I need to defend my Hispanic culture. It just sounds like everyone on here has a list of **** to say about everyone and I will say what ever the f**k I feel and further more instead of being on a social website putting all this negative energy in to **** every day try putting it in to loosing weight cause I have !!

Second of all I will put a b***h right in there place once they disrespect my MOTHER ! So there for cant take the heat get out the f**k out the kitchen

Uhmmm.... Perhaps you need to reread your original (grammatically incorrect) post about speaking with kindness. ;)

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Enough! What is wrong with you people? This is the second absolutely ridiculous and uncalled for thread I am having to close tonight. Take a break, enjoy your long weekend and get back to supporting one another. I have already banned one person tonight, I have no limitations on how many more I can do!

THREAD CLOSED!!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

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