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I have 2 children, 6 and 3. Today my hubby and I took them to the zoo. We were getting ready to leave and my 3 year old son looked at me and said "You coming with us mama?", all wide-eyed and surprised. My husband is always taking the kids places and a lot of times I don't go with them. I just can't keep up with all of the walking. I end up with sore knees, ankles, back, out of breath and not enjoying myself at all. So to hear my 3 year old say that, and realize that at his young age he KNOWS when I'm not with them as a family... it broke my heart. I am scheduled for surgery 6/10 and I know it's the right thing for me. But hearing that from my son today... ugh... it just slayed me to the core. But now I know without a doubt this is the best thing for me AND my family!!

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Good for you!!! :)

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It will be so exciting for your kids to know in the future that Mom is coming with us because she feels so much better and in so much better shape. Good for you and your decision. Use that comment to help you if you are struggling with your liquid phase or any time you may have a little struggle. Good luck on your adventure.

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Remember today with sweetness, not bitterness. This is your new resolve to be active with your family. I am excited you too.

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Remember today with sweetness, not bitterness. This is your new resolve to be active with your family. I am excited you too.

It's definitely not bitter. It was almost like it was just the FINAL FINAL thing I needed to know in my soul that I was doing the right thing. I am so ready to get this journey started!!

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Would be great if you had a picture from that outing to help you through the rough spots. Tell the little one they better watch out because you'll be right on their heels in no time! :)

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