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Are most Sleevers Women? If so Why?

I have been thinking about doing the VSG for a while after finally deciding against lap-band. This forum has answered alot of my questions just from reading others posts. But one thing I keep seeing is that the vast majority of Sleevers seem to be Women.

Now I don't know why, but maybe women just contribute more here on the forum or something. But I was wondering if anyone has any thoughts as to why women are doing THIS WLS more as compared to men. Men typically consume and need to consume more calories than women with all things being equal. Do you think this is part of the reason? I am concerned that eating 2-4oz only at each meal will not be enough for me. I used to be a weightlifter and while Ive always been Heavy Ive always been strong and have alot of muscle mass. Will i be able to eat enough to maintain muscle and loose weight. I dont want to be 350 anymore but i honestly dont want to be a lil guy at 180 either. Thoughts?

I'm a male, a tad over 6ft and 355 lbs and overweight all my life.

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I completely agree with missmeow. I couldnt say it better myself :)

I think it is cultural. More women get cosmetic surgery too. Women, I think, have a bigger burden when it comes to being obese in terms of how were perceived and treated. Also, as others have stated, women are more likely to find social outlets to discuss things.

The question really is if you want surgery or not.

Im new on the site but im half way though this this hoping for mid July it dose look like 80% are women at least on youtube

Thanks for the tip on the man room

Thanks for the tip on the man room

Oh and they also hang out in the "fitness and exercise" sub forum too!

But really they are all over :)

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Checked out the Man Room, thanks Laura!

Hey midnight

I had the same fears as you. I'm 6 1 and weighed 408 the day of surgery. I have been fortunate that I have not lost a lot of muscle mass. I had my surgery on August 27th. I did the bod pod at my gym at the end of September and my lean muscle mass was around 200 pounds. When I did the retest in December my lean muscle mass was 213 pounds. I don't really think I gained that much muscle mass, probably just better hydrated that day. I know these tests are not 100 percent accurate but it is probably close. With that being said I don't think I lost any mass either. I was mostly just doing light cardio and light weights during that time. I am trying to get more serious about lifting and working out. I have been trying to get at least 100 grams of Protein per day. My current weight is 284. I'v been in a bit of a stall the last three weeks or so. Even though I have not lost a lot of muscle I still feel small at 284. I think my shoulders look smaller. Never thought I would worry about being too small! If you have any questions feel free to pm me. Good luck!

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Great reply thanks Washffpm! Just met with surgeon yesterday and my insurance is making me do 6 months documented dr controlled diet. Bummed cause the lady at my insurance sd i wouldnt have to do that. oh well surgery is at least 7-8 months off now... :(

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