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It has been a while since my last post. I've been thinking about yall though! I am coming up on my one year anniversary and have been very reflective lately. First the good news. I am currently down 97 lbs. I went shopping Saturday and found myself in a size 12. My goal size! Yeah! I have gone from a 24 to a 12 in less than a year. How amazing is that? What's more amazing is how I feel. My two sons (50 lbs and 30 lbs) came home from the lake after spending a weekend with their grandparents. When they got home, I scooped them both up and started carrying them to the house. I made it to the garage (Dont be impressed. I teach in Texas. I dont have a big house. It was a pretty short trip). I was dying. When I put them down I thought to myself "****, I used to carry more than that every time I walked.". There is no description suitable enough to tell you how that AHA moment feels. I hope each of you have one at some point. Now the bad news. I am able to eat WAY more than I used to. It freaks me out. I know a lot of drs say you can stretch your stomach back out. I read an article the other day that said several drs did some research on sleevers that are 5 yrs out. They said none of their pouches had stretched. In all the patients studied, the pouches were leathery and couldn't stretch, the problem is how they eat. They learn how slowly to eat and just eat more. After reading that article, I think they are right. I paid more attention to how I ate and I find myself resting and going back. That was my bad AHA moment. Maybe though, now that I know, I can fight it. Anyway, my 1 year is on March 6th. Here's hoping I can say I've lost 100 pounds.

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You're doing great. I think the best part is you realize what your bad aha moment is. By realizing it, you can then correct it. I have confidence that you will make your goal of losing 100 pounds in a year!

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Congratulations! Awesome results :)

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That is a great AHA, cant wait till I get to have my AHA moment :-D

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That is fabulous!! So happy for you, good job on the research!! We must stay aware so we can keep it off!! Best of luck and congratulations.

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What an amazing "good aha" moment! Keep up your great progress. It's truly inspiring.

And, you should be proud of your insight on your "bad aha" moment. It sounds like good self-learning and reflection. I hope your insight helps you with your rating behaviour. Reading what you've written I am quite concerned about what happens 5... 10... 20 years out. It would be so stressful to gain back the weight many years later.

... When I put them down I thought to myself "****, I used to carry more than that every time I walked.". There is no description suitable enough to tell you how that AHA moment feels. I hope each of you have one at some point. ... and I find myself resting and going back. That was my bad AHA moment.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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