Ok I know this is probably bordering TMI. My highest weight was 294 but mostly lingered about 280 since 2004. My sex life consisted of the ceiling view. But just recently I got the birds eye view lol. I was on top the whole time. Not out of breath, not hurting from shifting weight. No hurting my husband! I have been waiting for this for a very long time(so has my husband). I'm now almost 3 weeks post op at 250, dos 264? I'm pretty sure. But I just wanted to share my excitement about conquering another area in my life that I've so longed to have control of. And feel good about myself in the bedroom again! )

Maybe the title should say you guys not just women I'm sure everybody struggled with this. I apologize to the men

LOL, Congratulations, I recently got into the 200's for the first time in at least a decade, and am also leaning how much fun NEW positions can be. Can't wait to try a few more.