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SeriouslyChange    319

SeriouslyChange
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Just an FYI, you violated the terms and conditions that we all agreed to with this post, and with a few of your last ones. If everyone wanted to they could all report you and you'd be banned. It's one thing to argue a point. Another to personally attack people

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p77tmey    15

p77tmey
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Posting about a weakness is one thing.

Posting about something that could end you up in emergency surgery is another.

I'm not, per say, referring to the "topic at hand", just the way reading MANY threads (definitely not just this one) makes my heart beat fast from the tense anxiety in the room. I've had my share of post op life threatening situations, and have used it to educate others to prevent it from happening to them. But never would I want it to get so verbally ugly.

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ShrinkyDinkMe22    376

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All I can say is wow. You guys have taken this way out of hand.

OP, I'm glad you were able to find the help you were looking for.

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KarissaKhaos    170

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Now I'm an idiot? STILL trying to figure out HOW that helped? Did saying that change what I did? Did saying that offer a plan for change? Fishy' date=' please have a seat. At this point it's like you're trying to top the last thing you said. NONE of which is conducive to an adult conversation or offering support. What are you going for? Makes me wonder…why are you so angry and why are you fishing for negative responses.

Update: I found some support groups in my area. I getting some "help"![/quote']

Exactly, telling people they should be ashamed and being incredibly harsh isn't going to change what they did, what's done is done and if anything it's just goog to make them feel even worse, thus making them afraid to post anything on here if they need advice, sad really.

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ShyV.    32

ShyV.
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Amen!

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jen1211    203

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All I can say is wow. You guys have taken this way out of hand.

OP, I'm glad you were able to find the help you were looking for.

I'll second that! ;)

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nichole33    1

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Ok I confess. I ate 3 small bites of grilled chicken today. All I have wanted is grilled chicken for the past 5-6 weeks. I feel bad but it is protein! But I am only 3 weeks post op...but when I left the hospital my dr. told me I could have full liquid diet and saltine crackers. Just scared I hurt my stomach. Please no negative comments, were all going through the same kinda thing...and if u didn't cheat...more power to u.

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delta_girl    931

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Ok I confess. I ate 3 small bites of grilled chicken today. All I have wanted is grilled chicken for the past 5-6 weeks. I feel bad but it is protein! But I am only 3 weeks post op...but when I left the hospital my dr. told me I could have full liquid diet and saltine crackers. Just scared I hurt my stomach. Please no negative comments, were all going through the same kinda thing...and if u didn't cheat...more power to u.

So you want to hear it is ok?

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Eclectic82    22

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Ok I confess. I ate 3 small bites of grilled chicken today. All I have wanted is grilled chicken for the past 5-6 weeks. I feel bad but it is protein! But I am only 3 weeks post op...but when I left the hospital my dr. told me I could have full liquid diet and saltine crackers. Just scared I hurt my stomach. Please no negative comments, were all going through the same kinda thing...and if u didn't cheat...more power to u.

All I can say, with my limited experience, is put one foot in front of the other and get back on track. Call your doctor and figure out why you did it. **waves wand** Go forth and don't do it again. :)

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delta_girl    931

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No I'm ok with my mistake. Just wanted to see if anyone tried a piece of chicken, lol

Heck no I didn't. I researched and was wayyyyyy too scared to do it after finding out the potential repercussions.

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neekoal    37

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By the way I did not eat the crackers!

Don't bother to post in this thread Nichole, its toxic. Just run before you feel bad about yourself.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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