Hi!

Just to introduce myself, I'm a 52 year old man with a BMI of 51.1, so we all know what that means!

I'm currently trying to see my family doc for a recommendation that weight loss surgery is necessary. A recent sleep study showed severe sleep apnea. Last time I called the nurse and left a message for the doctor about WLS, he called back and left a message: "Just try and lose some weight"!

I'm not a very 'pushy' person, but I can't let it drop, we're talking about my future well-being.

I do have an appointment this Friday, the 13th, with him, so wish me luck! Any suggestions would be most welcome.

Bill (Red Wine Lover)

Welcome Bill,

If you are trying to get insurance to pay for it, I would call your insurance company and see what is required by them to pay for the WLS. For example, if they require a dietician interview and sessions and you need a recommendation from your PCP for them, then ask him for that, not necessarily his opinion if you need the surgery or not.

IMO, "YOU" are the only one who will be certain if you need the surgery. Skinny people and unsupportive Dr.s are going to tell you to just diet and excersize, hence the call you received from the Dr.'s nurse.

You qualify for the surgery with your BMI and sleep apnea, alone, not including your higher percentage of getting Type II diabetes and possibly higher blood pressure. So there is no question that the surgery will benefit you. If you are 100% certain that you are ready to move forward, I think you should approach the Dr. and tell him this is a decision that you have made and you need his recommendation to continue.

Good luck.