So I started my journey in June and I'm totally thrilled and scared. Tomorrow I find out my date for surgery considering I have two months left for the insurance to approve me.(praying) Joining this forum was such a blessing. I've learned so much from everyones experiences and I now feel like the sleeve is a better option for me then the bypass. This is the first forum I've ever joined and it's been so helpful. It really gave me the heads up to what expect. Thank u everyone! But what fears me most is that I won't have my other half to support me and I'll be going through this experience alone. My husband and I are separated at the moment and don't know if we'll ever be a family again. It's been really stressful and it sucks! But all this drama isn't going to make me lose my focus. I believe things happen for a reason and getting this wls is going to be a fresh start to a new successful healthier life for myself and my daughter. I choose life! I'm praying that after surgery I no longer have to be insulin dependent and be able to keep up with my crazy four yr old and have just as much energy that she does.

Good Luck!!!!

Best of luck to you!!

Thanks! I need it!

Best of luck to you, when you let something go if its really yours, it comes back to you. Don't ever give up on hope! I am rooting for a great happy ending to your story! Blessings...

Good luck! I know how you feel, this is my first forum too! Sorry to hear about you and ur husband, stay strong and keep postive its a good thing you have good goals right now to keep your mind active. wish you all the best!

Thank u so much gail! I hope it all works out. God knows I pray everyday.

Thank ms shauna! Im usually everyones positive cheer leader and i try to make everyday a positive day with a smile even when theres days i really don't want to. But I'll do my best

Thank ms shauna! Im usually everyones positive cheer leader and i try to make everyday a positive day with a smile even when theres days i really don't want to. But I'll do my best

Hey crysky how ya doing sweetie!

I'm doing alright but Today was a tough day. I got into it with my husband who was threatening me about cutting me off our insurance so I can't get surgery. He's a spiteful jerk. Sorry for the TMI but it sucks having to deal with the crap. Anywho I wasn't able to find out my date because the one who schedules was out but I do find out on Nov 2 so I'm excited! I pray everything goes good with the insurance and I get approved for the end of dec. Did you get your surgery done yet?

I'm doing alright but Today was a tough day. I got into it with my husband who was threatening me about cutting me off our insurance so I can't get surgery. He's a spiteful jerk. Sorry for the TMI but it sucks having to deal with the crap. Anywho I wasn't able to find out my date because the one who schedules was out but I do find out on Nov 2 so I'm excited! I pray everything goes good with the insurance and I get approved for the end of dec. Did you get your surgery done yet?

Oh hun I am sorry to hear that, thats horrible! > < hugs!! xoxo I havent had surgery yet still waiting Nov 14 is the day! why do you have to wait almost 2 wks to find out ur date now?

I'm doing alright but Today was a tough day. I got into it with my husband who was threatening me about cutting me off our insurance so I can't get surgery. He's a spiteful jerk. Sorry for the TMI but it sucks having to deal with the crap. Anywho I wasn't able to find out my date because the one who schedules was out but I do find out on Nov 2 so I'm excited! I pray everything goes good with the insurance and I get approved for the end of dec. Did you get your surgery done yet?

Spiteful is right. Jerk is right. And I don't think he can do that. If he gets away with it, I hate to say it but state aid will cover it. My sister-in-law had the surgery AND PLASTIC SURGERY! all on the state welfare system. You don't need him, Crysky!