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I am scheduled to be sleeved Aug 30. I am excited but there are days where I say "I'm not doing it. I can lose it on my own." One day I feel great about it and one day I am having second thoughts. Is this normal? Anyone else go through this?

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DO IT!! It will change your life. Im three weeks out and lost like 47 pounds. you will NOT regret it.

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I was the same way... Up until they took me back to the operating room I was questioning myself... I am only 10 days out but I have come to peace with my decision and couldn't be happier!

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I aint gonna lie, I was doubting myself getting admitted and undressing and all that, thinking DUDE ARE YOU SERIOUS? no more buffalo wild wings!!!!!!! but I want a healthy and thinner body, I was once a young healthy Marine and would like to return to that.

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Have you ever lost weight on a diet before? I'm guessing yes. Then what happened? If you're like me, you gained it all back, plus more. Then did this again and again and again. This surgery will stop the vicious cycle. No more diets. No more vicious cycle.

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I think alot of people have second thoughts before surgery, but almost everyone is glad they had the surgery after.

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I'm going through the exact same emotions. I so want to get it done and then I think, OMG this is a huge for the rest of my life thing do I really want to do it? Yes I do! So relieved that there are people out there going through the same stuff. I just think of my kids, and being able to do more with them and being able to fit in seat on the roller coasters and I know this is the right thing for me. I am sure these thoughts will continue but I know this is right for me.

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I don't even have a date yet other than "sometime in December" and I'm having the exact same feelings!

I hate it when people say that wls is an "extreme" option. When you look at the statistics, it really isn't extreme -- it's a proven effective tool in immediate weight loss and long term maintenance. I watched "One Nation Overweight" on Netflix the other night, and there it was again -- "the extreme option of bariatric surgery." It was really bugging me!

But now that I have my nutritionist appointment scheduled, and my date as "December 2012," "Extreme" keeps popping into my head. Like, this is crazy, I can do it on my own, I don't need surgery, etc etc... I don't know. I've got more time to mull things over than you do. I believe that this is a great decision -- great that we even have the option! Good luck.

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I don't even have a date yet other than "sometime in December" and I'm having the exact same feelings!

But now that I have my nutritionist appointment scheduled' date=' and my date as "December 2012," "Extreme" keeps popping into my head. Like, this is crazy, I can do it on my own, I don't need surgery, etc etc... I don't know. I've got more time to mull things over than you do. I believe that this is a great decision -- great that we even have the option! Good luck.[/quote']

Exact same feelings here. I go to the meetings, say, yes! I want I look that good! But then I think, sheesh! Surgery, this is the rest of my life, I can't change my mind after the fact. Am I just being lazy? I keep going back to all the posts that people say they wish they did it sooner. I've seen some regrets immediately following surgery but I've seen a post of someone 1-2 years out regret it. I'm hoping for a September surgery date. Just waiting for insurance approval. I could of had it next week with my original surgeon but just didn't feel comfortable with him. His practice felt too much like an assembly line. Love my current practice. I feel like everyone in the office cares and I'm not just a number.

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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