Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Your Saturday - Sunday Discussion



Recommended Posts

In light of Easter weekend I wanna know... How will you spend your weekend?

This morning I took my nephew and son to an Easter egg hunt and then the park. This afternoon after a short nap my son and I played outside while my nephew helped my dad fix the fence, and then the boys and I went to a family fun festival in the city where we live.

Tomorrow were headed to the falls to spend the day swimming and hanging out with friends, and afterwards we'll head to my moms house for Easter dinner.< /p>

Anyone else have any fun plans this weekend?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

So sorry, Ready! I will praying for you to feel better soon.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have a 4-day weekend, it's pretty sweet. We went to my fiance's grandparents' for a family gathering today. Tomorrow, we're going to see a puppet show. Other than that, a run here and there and just hanging out.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

i went to church, then my friends wanted to go to steak n shake n i was like RED FLAG RED FLAG ... so i couldnt say no since i didnt drive my way to chruch.. so i had to go with them.. pressuring me to order soemthing i ordered some shooter tht comes with chili cheese fries n onion rings i took two bits of one small steak burger, n it went down i was fine then one bite of onion ring ok no problem then one bite of the chili cheese fries.. i dont know maybe i ate too fast.. but i had to throw up. it felt stuck n i was in pain, n the food was slowly coming up.l i had to excuse my self saying that my mom was calling me n i needed to answer since she didnt know i was in steak n shake.. so i went in the bathroom n let it all out.. after that i went back n they were talkin of how lil i ate.. so i pretended to eat. mixed the food around.. u know but still.. so they were ordering shakes.. i ordered a kids sized butter finger shake.. n i sip like 1 oz n had the same feeling again so i stopped drinking.. i got home n gave the food i bought n shake to my mom.. man i dont think i would ever eat out with my friends AGAIN since they dont know about my sleeve... n tomorrow i have more church n theres going to be food.. i am driving this time so i will take a plate home..

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

i went to church, then my friends wanted to go to steak n shake n i was like RED FLAG RED FLAG ... so i couldnt say no since i didnt drive my way to chruch.. so i had to go with them.. pressuring me to order soemthing i ordered some shooter tht comes with chili cheese fries n onion rings i took two bits of one small steak burger, n it went down i was fine then one bite of onion ring ok no problem then one bite of the chili cheese fries.. i dont know maybe i ate too fast.. but i had to throw up. it felt stuck n i was in pain, n the food was slowly coming up.l i had to excuse my self saying that my mom was calling me n i needed to answer since she didnt know i was in steak n shake.. so i went in the bathroom n let it all out.. after that i went back n they were talkin of how lil i ate.. so i pretended to eat. mixed the food around.. u know but still.. so they were ordering shakes.. i ordered a kids sized butter finger shake.. n i sip like 1 oz n had the same feeling again so i stopped drinking.. i got home n gave the food i bought n shake to my mom.. man i dont think i would ever eat out with my friends AGAIN since they dont know about my sleeve... n tomorrow i have more church n theres going to be food.. i am driving this time so i will take a plate home..

I am so sorry you had a bad experience! This is tough, because your friends don't know about your sleeve. While you are not asking for advice, we have Steak N Shake here and it is actually a pretty good option, so I thought I would offer some support. Those little burgers are probably not your best choice if you eat the bun. I am over three months out and I order burgers and sandwiches all the time but definitely no bread!

If you go to Steak N Shake again, maybe try the chili and a side of cottage cheese. Or order those little burgers without the bread. You need to stand up for yourself and just say no to ordering foods to please or even fool other people. This is the time to be totally about YOU. You went through a lot to make yourself healthier. You don't have to explain yourself or tell everyone about your surgery, just change the subject if people start talking about your food intake.

Please forgive me if I have over-spoken.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'll be seeing Titanic 3D with my mom, hubby & 3 babies. It will be my first full on family outing post -op (3/30). I usually have popcorn w/ butter, an icee, pickle & large choc. candy. Tomorrow I'm bringing Water, a to go package of Peanut Butter, a little can of chicken salad, pudding & one of those fruit mash up things you suck on to get the puréed out. I won't eat all of it of course bit I wanted a variety.... It's a 3 hour movie y'all. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am so sorry you had a bad experience! This is tough, because your friends don't know about your sleeve. While you are not asking for advice, we have Steak N shake here and it is actually a pretty good option, so I thought I would offer some support. Those little burgers are probably not your best choice if you eat the bun. I am over three months out and I order burgers and sandwiches all the time but definitely no bread!

If you go to Steak N shake again, maybe try the chili and a side of cottage cheese. Or order those little burgers without the bread. You need to stand up for yourself and just say no to ordering foods to please or even fool other people. This is the time to be totally about YOU. You went through a lot to make yourself healthier. You don't have to explain yourself or tell everyone about your surgery, just change the subject if people start talking about your food intake.

Please forgive me if I have over-spoken.

thanks for ur advice n u r totally right! its so true its been too damn long i just got my sleeve 1 month post op, n 3 days! thanks again for the healthier options.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • KimBaxleyWilson

      Three months and four days ago... I was in Costa Rica having a life changing surgery! Yesterday we had a followup visit with Dr. Esmeral via video chat and this morning my middle number changed.  I'm down 47lbs and two pants sizes. I can wear a Large tshirt for the first time in like... 14 years! Woot!! Everything is going great. I have zero regrets. I went down to the riverwalk with a friend and walked 2 miles on Monday without even getting fatigued. And no more snoring or chugging pickle juice for crazy leg cramps! I need to go to the gym more... I'm making new shirts next week so that will motivate me. LOL But I'm also just not as TIRED all the time! I have a LONG way to go...but seeing the progress on the scales and in the mirror is a huge motivator!! Thank you all for cheering me on and supporting me!!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • bellaamey

      https://alluniqueguide.com/java-burn-coffee-reviews/
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×