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im sitting at the computer and caught my self in the mirror how disgusted ia m cant wait reinforced what I know marching forward Nov 17th cant wait to be sleeved!

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I know exactly how you feel. I felt the same way. I would see pictures of myself and think who is that? I still felt like the young, healthy self I was before. I am slowly losing toward my goal and having to adapt to a new body to go along with my new outlook on life. You can do it. Just remember you've always been beautiful inside now the outside will just match.

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Let me share this with you...

All those things, hopes dreams, expectations of what life will be like when you lose the weight....

Well, no matter how hard you try to keep the expectations real it is SOooOOo much better than all that!!!!! OMG. Wow!!!! I mean heck freakin yes!!!! You are gonna love life on this side!!!!

Be strong face your fears and charge forward too more than you even hope!

Pasquini!!!

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OMG thanks so much I cant wait Had a melt down a few days ago trying to get the house organized with thanksgiving and xmas and the kids I almost threw hubby off the porch lol but I am learning how to breath and I cant wait I want this so so bad ! Thank you for your support!

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Moving forward or right! It is so much better than anything I ever dreamed. It ha it hard moments, but trust me they fail in comparison to where Ur gonna end up!

Godspeed

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I so appreciate it your words you look fabulous God bless you and your family and your inspiration is everything to me thank you I have been there I lost weight starving and I remember that feeling but its never lasting because when you are genetically or no matter ending u obese it always comes back and I am 47 and its so much harder I did it all phen phen shakes nutri system its a wrap you should be so proud ..The best to you and I appreciate your great words of encouragement and positive thoughts..You look fantastic your family must be so proud good for you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I cant wait 6 days to be on my way to feel healthy and look forward to living and not running from a glimpse of myself in a mirror its the worst way to live and its effected my family I am angry all the time because I hate what Ive become and its not fair to my family!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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