we struggled with our weight our whole life I cried she is 8 yrs younger and she did it she is off meds and the lids they 20's and her hubby is trying so hard to sabotage her its awful i told her to leave she is off her meds omg what is wrong because we coddled them and sacrificed ourselves they cant accept us moving on my heart breaks for her i am awaiting approval and no no none will take my joy away!

Hi there, I'm sorry to hear your sister is having such a hard time. I couldn't help but notice you are located in Fishkill. I work there. Do you attend any local support groups? I haven't found any but I know there must be. Who is your surgeon? I'm seeing Dr. Kaul in Hawthorne.