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So I'm 25 days post op and things are going well so far, today is my last date night with my husband before he leaves for 5 months for military reasons. I can't say much but its depressing and I know a big part of my support is leaving and I will miss him. The only good part in this I can see is I should (Hoping) that I'm smaller when I see him again. Anyways thats all I had to say, If anyone has gone through this before I would love to hear from you, or just helpful comments is great. sad.gif

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I'm sorry hun!! I know it's incredibly frustrating when they leave, but you can use that time to focus on yourself and get used to your new tummy. My hubby went for training (it was only 30days) but in the time he was gone I lost 23lbs and 3 pant sizes, so needless to say he was incredibly shocked when he saw me when he got back. I used that time to myself to work on my fitness, and not to mention my grocery bill was only about 150 for the entire month. Idk if you guys have kids, but it was just me here, so we were able to save a little money :) Sending hugs your way!!!

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