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I am glad to see this forum discuss some of the similarities as well as some of the unique issues AA sleevers face. I am waiting for my approval from Aetna and hope to have surgery in the next four to six weeks. I was declined in September because Aetna said my file was incomplete and I had no comorbities other than a BMI of 50% ( go figure).

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I had my sleeve placed this past Wednesday I came home Thursday. I started cramping and now I have something like a light cycle but I just had one on September 9th I did have intercourse on the 21st but thought nothing of it the test was negative the day of surgery. Did anyone else go through this. So could it just be the stress of the procedure?

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Hello family. I was sleeved Monday and I am doing great. Able to drink required liquids with Protein. Not able to tolerate Jello or my vitamins/calcium chews. Going to try powder Vitamins and add to drinks. No pain what so ever. I get to start full liquids tomorrow and I can't wait. pudding and cream Soups here I come.

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Anyone's surgeon have a crazy sounding goal weight for them? I am scared that my surgeon will set mine at 110 or something crazy like that.. I am 5'2 but I plan on keeping some booty and breasts I do not want to be stick thin... I am thinking 135...

I'm 5'2 and my surgeons goal for me is 135 so you maybe in luck although I was thinking 145 or 150.

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I'm 5'2 and my surgeons goal for me is 135 so you maybe in luck although I was thinking 145 or 150.

I think I would look fantastic at 145 but I know 135 is what it may take to make surgeon happy..

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I think I would look fantastic at 145 but I know 135 is what it may take to make surgeon happy..

I'm currently 260, my pcp said he'd be happy with 175 but I wanna push for 145/135. The surgeon said that way when I get older it will be ok if I gain a little

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I'm currently 260' date=' my pcp said he'd be happy with 175 but I wanna push for 145/135. The surgeon said that way when I get older it will be ok if I gain a little[/quote']

We are same age and starting weight. I tall are you? I said 175 too, but really would like to get to 150.

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I'm currently 260' date=' my pcp said he'd be happy with 175 but I wanna push for 145/135. The surgeon said that way when I get older it will be ok if I gain a little[/quote']

I am pre-op @ 256 and scheduled for surgery on 12/3 and 160/65 is my personal goal... I have no desire to be less.. My goal is to be healthy, and to feel great and look good.

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We are same age and starting weight. I tall are you? I said 175 too' date=' but really would like to get to 150.[/quote']

I'm 37 and 5'2. I've been approved but I don't have a date yet.

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Just discovered this thread. I had my surgery 9/21. I am still doing full liquids and can't wait for my post op appt next week. I have to wait until then to get something new added to my diet. Today has been tough emotionally as I am so freakin tired of broth and tired of the hubby driving me everywhere in my brand new car. I know he is just lovin it. Doc will not allow me to work from home or drive until I see him...rest walk n sip.

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Hello family. I was sleeved Monday and I am doing great. Able to drink required liquids with Protein. Not able to tolerate Jello or my vitamins/calcium chews. Going to try powder Vitamins and add to drinks. No pain what so ever. I get to start full liquids tomorrow and I can't wait. pudding and cream Soups here I come.

Congratulations to you. I can't until it is my turn. Did you have a lot of pain after the surgery? How long did you stay in the hospital after the surgery? That is my biggest concern, as I have previously had long stays in the hospital after a total knee replacement and then a life-threatening infection a year later.

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Hey! I was sleeved on the 27th and I feel pretty good! I had some issues with my BP, but they increased my meds and I also had to come home with a pic line. The Protein was making me nauseous, but I figured I would try again today and my protien is making me feel a whole lot better! I had a few emotional moments where I was like Lord why did I do this, and he always made sure there was someone there in the hospital who had the surgery too to remind me why. I am pressing toward the mark, each day I notice I feel better. I have a couple of milestones, I was 480 at my pre-surgical testing appointment and then 453 on the day of surgery, then I was 458 yesterday, but I know that's because of all the fluids. Then because I had been so heavy and there was a lot of Fluid on my legs, they were very painful to touch, the pain is gone, and my legs actually look like legs now :D

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Im 27yr old male due to be sleeved October 5th of this year. Can anyone tell me how much pain they experienced from surgery.

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It's different from person to person. I had surgery last Wednesday and was In pain for 2 days them more like stiffness now. You'll be just fine.

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Im 27yr old male due to be sleeved October 5th of this year. Can anyone tell me how much pain they experienced from surgery.

It really depends on your situation and pain tolerance. I had surgery last Thursday and haven't had any pain medication since last Fri night. That just means that my pain has been tolerable and I wanted to get off pain meds ASAP so I can drive. I'm more sore than in pain and I move a certain way I do have more pain. Rest assured you'll be ok and the doctor will give you a RX for pain meds to help with the pain. Wishing you well this week and a healthy recovery.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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