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Hi i am Amber. I was sleeved 12/14/2011. I lost 12 pre & 10-12 post. (it keeps shifting) I started at 238, and am now hovering around 214-216. I read about someone being picked up like a sac of potatoes, and i think it would be nice for my husband to be able to lift me like that. :) I live in S.E. Michigan and i got surgery at the University of Michigan with dr. finks.

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Im 23 and was sleeved on 11/8/11. im down 76 pounds and feeling better each day. Just wanted to say Hello to everyone.

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Hi! I am 20, I know I just barely make it, and I am getting sleeved March 23rd with Dr. Garcia in TJ!

I can't wait, it feels so far away!

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I'm 22, and I was sleeved on January 17th. I wasn't put on a pre-op diet, but i have lost 10lb since my operation. I'm feeling happy about the weight loss, but i'm missing the food

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Hey there, I just turned 25 and can finally afford the surgery with Dr. Aceves in Mex. I'm still trying to figure out a date in March during my spring break. I'm excited and nervous.

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Hi everyone!! Thought I would post my info here as well. My name is Liz,I am 24 yrs old. I started this journey in October 2011 at 268 lbs,lost 14 lbs before surgery. Was sleeved on January 25th 2012,and have lost 16 lbs since being sleeved! It's the best thing I've done for myself!

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Im 25 and going thru all the doc stuff so I can be scheduled, as we speak im at the sleep study place lol ive been a big girl all my life, but me recently having my daughter in april of 2011 has really sent me over the edge, I lost none of my baby weight!! This is so sickening to say, im 5'9 and 399lbs!!... Fortunately im proportioned so I can carry weight well, I know I dont look 400lbs but u can def tell im well over 300..i never thought I would ever be this big, its so scary...i want to live for my baby. Im also nervous about the surgery, scared about not being able to really eat for the.first couple of months, saggy skin, loosing my breast and ive also heard about some ppl having Hair loss. Dont get me wrong, I like being big (not like I am now)..i love having curves...if I could get.down to 230 id be happy, a size 18 pants I think would look good, I def dont wanna be small, I wanna stay "big fine" as my man calls it lol..thats another thing, I dont kno how he will act when I do lose weight....i just pray im making the right.decision for myself...so glad I came across this app, I kno yall kno how I feel!

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Im 25 and going thru all the doc stuff so I can be scheduled, as we speak im at the sleep study place lol ive been a big girl all my life, but me recently having my daughter in april of 2011 has really sent me over the edge, I lost none of my baby weight!! This is so sickening to say, im 5'9 and 399lbs!!... Fortunately im proportioned so I can carry weight well, I know I dont look 400lbs but u can def tell im well over 300..i never thought I would ever be this big, its so scary...i want to live for my baby. Im also nervous about the surgery, scared about not being able to really eat for the.first couple of months, saggy skin, loosing my breast and ive also heard about some ppl having hair loss. Dont get me wrong, I like being big (not like I am now)..i love having curves...if I could get.down to 230 id be happy, a size 18 pants I think would look good, I def dont wanna be small, I wanna stay "big fine" as my man calls it lol..thats another thing, I dont kno how he will act when I do lose weight....i just pray im making the right.decision for myself...so glad I came across this app, I kno yall kno how I feel!

I know how you feel girl! Just think about your health and the rest of your life. Carrying extra weight now while we're young may or may not do too much to our health,but carry it for 20 more years and it will likely do alot. One of the main reaosns I had the sleeve done was to give me a better chance at being here longer for my 4 children,and to set a great example of health and fitness for them,in hopes that they won't grow up and be overweight like I have been since the age of 10. I def think you're making the right decision,just hang in there,you'll be on the loser's bench in no time! =)) We're all here to support you.

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I know how you feel girl! Just think about your health and the rest of your life. Carrying extra weight now while we're young may or may not do too much to our health' date='but carry it for 20 more years and it will likely do alot. One of the main reaosns I had the sleeve done was to give me a better chance at being here longer for my 4 children,and to set a great example of health and fitness for them,in hopes that they won't grow up and be overweight like I have been since the age of 10. I def think you're making the right decision,just hang in there,you'll be on the loser's bench in no time! =)) We're all here to support you.[/quote']

Thx for the support ;) ur right, I just need to think about my baby & being around for her.. It may be vain but I mentioned that I was reading about ppl losing their hair and boobs..its sad to say that just from reading that I was second guessing the surgery, I still do sometimes....i really need to step back and think whats really important in life, which most def is being there for my daughter...im just soooo nervous and scared, my brain races thinking of all the negative stuff... I kno ill b good tho, the waiting is whats getting to me

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I know how you feel girl! Just think about your health and the rest of your life. Carrying extra weight now while we're young may or may not do too much to our health' date='but carry it for 20 more years and it will likely do alot. One of the main reaosns I had the sleeve done was to give me a better chance at being here longer for my 4 children,and to set a great example of health and fitness for them,in hopes that they won't grow up and be overweight like I have been since the age of 10. I def think you're making the right decision,just hang in there,you'll be on the loser's bench in no time! =)) We're all here to support you.[/quote']

Thx for the support ;) ur right, I just need to think about my baby & being around for her.. It may be vain but I mentioned that I was reading about ppl losing their hair and boobs..its sad to say that just from reading that I was second guessing the surgery, I still do sometimes....i really need to step back and think whats really important in life, which most def is being there for my daughter...im just soooo nervous and scared, my brain races thinking of all the negative stuff... I kno ill b good tho, the waiting is whats getting to me

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hey everyone :) I'm Ellie and just turned 21. my surgery date is May 11th in Pittsburgh!!! I'm super excited and a little nervous at the same time. I have support from all the people I would like support from. Just beig able to read these posts now that I have been approve is just making me realize how life changing this surgery is. I'm ready to change into a more healthier and happier life style and just be able to live me life to the fullest :D if anyone else is getting surgery around my date add me so we can talk about our experience together as we go :)

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hey everyone :) I'm Ellie and just turned 21. my surgery date is May 11th in Pittsburgh!!! I'm super excited and a little nervous at the same time. I have support from all the people I would like support from. Just beig able to read these posts now that I have been approve is just making me realize how life changing this surgery is. I'm ready to change into a more healthier and happier life style and just be able to live me life to the fullest :D if anyone else is getting surgery around my date add me so we can talk about our experience together as we go :)

Hi Ellie! I'm Emily and I'm 21 as well :) I already had my surgery, 7 months ago in september. I am very glad to hear that you have such a strong support network. I had that and it really helps sooo much :) My mom was incredible for me and I am soo happy I had her. It is life changing, but once you are at the point where I am and beyond, you don't notice it as much. It shifts into a new normal that is feels good.I never realised how much I was missing before :) If you have any questions or just want to chat let me know! You can always send me a private message. Good luck! May will be here before you know it!

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    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
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    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
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      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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