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I Was Called FAT In Public..... AGAIN!

HotButterFly

By HotButterFly, in Rants & Raves

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Courtney Minor    26

Courtney Minor
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people are just angry with them selfs! dont listen to anyone who talks to you like that! "misery needs company" dont join them. laugh it off, the fact that they are so low in life they feel the need to hurt someone they do not even know. how pathetic they are!

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lisacaron    5,075

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You can and you will lose weight...and she will always be a mean spirited ugly lady. Feel bad for her, and great about yourself cause you ROCK!

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HotButterFly    981

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What is the matter with people! You are beautiful' date=' inside and out.[/quote']

Thank you, love!

dont listen to anyone who talks to you like that! "misery needs company" dont join them. laugh it off' date=' the fact that they are so low in life they feel the need to hurt someone they do not even know. how pathetic they are![/quote']

You're right, I should be laughing it off. After all, i AM having the last laugh!

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PrettyThick1    1,860

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Forget about what people who don't matter say or think about you. You are changing your life for the better, but at the end of the day she's still going to be an old, wicked woman. I'll bet her family doesn't even like to be around her, so she is to be pitied. You have friends - albeit virtual, we like you just the way you are.

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HotButterFly    981

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Mind you, I was being NICE to the lady... She put her bag on the seat next to me to get her metrocard out to pay and I gently said: "you may sit here". That's all I said to her. She said she wouldn't fit with my BIG ASS (in Spanish)

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hiddnstar    167

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Mind you, I was being NICE to the lady... She put her bag on the seat next to me to get her metrocard out to pay and I gently said: "you may sit here". That's all I said to her. She said she wouldn't fit with my BIG ASS (in Spanish)

What an odd way for her to respond to your kindness. Her comment had all to do with HER and nothing to do with YOU. It must be miserable to believe there is no room even when it is openly offered. It makes a person wonder what kind of life she leads --is there any joy at all?

Keep on being kind. You won't always get a positive response, but it's a lovely way to be in the world!

~hiddn

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parisshel    1,892

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Mind you, I was being NICE to the lady... She put her bag on the seat next to me to get her metrocard out to pay and I gently said: "you may sit here". That's all I said to her. She said she wouldn't fit with my BIG ASS (in Spanish)

That says everything about her and nothing about you. She must be such a sad person to have to denigrate others. Or maybe she was just crazy. I get a lot of comments (negative and positive) from crazy street people. That's just normal for a big city.

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mrsto    2,925

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Mind you, I was being NICE to the lady... She put her bag on the seat next to me to get her metrocard out to pay and I gently said: "you may sit here". That's all I said to her. She said she wouldn't fit with my BIG ASS (in Spanish)

Unbelievable.....grown people name calling like this. She behaves live a child in grammar school. Clearly, the woman has issues that have absolutely nothing to do with you. Doesn't make it sting any less in the moment, but try & see those type of people for what they are.

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Sojourner    2,446

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We all know that we are not able to influence the way other people believe, think, say, or do.

The best protection against being offended or made angry is to "make your skin thicker", consider the source for the offending remarks, and then move on. You likely will never encounter that person again...let it go.

Staying angry over something hurtful like you encountered means that you have given away your power to choose to another who does not deserve it.

She likely has already forgotten about the incident...but you are still feeling offended. Does that make sense?

Keep focused on your path...that is the choice you can make, and feel sorry for the immature woman.

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PrettyThick1    1,860

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well she missed the chance to sit next to a beautiful woman inside and out.....so she missed her blessing for the day....

She's probably blocked many more blessings in the process.

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Shazam    517

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People can really suck! That's where you hold your head high.

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HotButterFly    981

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well she missed the chance to sit next to a beautiful woman inside and out.....so she missed her blessing for the day....
Thank you, sweetheart!

Thank you all for your responses. <3

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