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I want to wear boy cut panties and not have them hang open at the bottom cause your tummy is too big....

I want my boyfriend to pick me up.....biggest one of all.

POPT

Almost there!

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I want to wear tight(ish) pants and not mushroom over top of the waistband...

I can't wait for people to stop assuming I'm stupid cuz I'm plus-size

I want to cross my legs without sitting on one hip and leaning against the armrest to keep my leg from sliding off

I want to take a couple of flights of stairs without huffin' and puffin'

I'm sure there's more but its late!

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This post made my day...

I want all the things that you all posted, but the one I really can't wait for is when my b/f can just take me in his arms and carry me off.

I wonder if it's as good as it is in the movies?

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I have one more for the list...

i don't want my thighs to touch, I was on the subway today and I noticed a girl wearing jeans and you could see right through her legs as she was standing there.

I go through a lot of pants, they all tend to wear thin on the inner thighs

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Jurema.... me too! It's the craziest feeling, LETTING someone pick you up! My boyfriend can, and does now, but I want him to do it without any trouble!

And the thigh rubbing thing... can't wait for that! I'm happy to say I haven't run down the thighs in any pants SINCE I've been banded. I would put Iron on Patches on the insides of my jeans when they were getting a little too thin! Man oh man... THOSE chafed!

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I haven't seen too many (or any) guys chime in so here I go...

- I'd like to not have my belly make slappy noises when I run up a flight of stairs...

- I'd like to not worry what other think when they see me in a speedo...:nervous

- I'd like to hug Mrs. Yoda and have her hands touch behind me...

- I'd like to hug Mrs. Yoda and have her to be able to grab my bum as she does... (she would need gorilla arms right now) :D

- I'd like to play my guitar holding it properly without my belly in the way...

- I'd like to see friends I've not seen in awhile and have them not recognise me because I am smaller...

and finaly...

- I'd like to see my penis again... it's been so long since I have seen it that I could legally have it declared dead... and I'd like to know if it has grown since I was 12 YOA! :eyebrows:

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I want to wear tight(ish) pants and not mushroom over top of the waistband...

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Heidi I ditto that. I can that the unwanted muffin top....

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I want to...wear single digit sized clothes.

I have already...thrown away my size 3X panties

closed my Lane Bryant account

climbed Diamond Head

YEA ME!!!

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and finaly...

- I'd like to see my penis again... it's been so long since I have seen it that I could legally have it declared dead... and I'd like to know if it has grown since I was 12 YOA! :eyebrows:

LOL as long as Mr. Yoda can see it I things will be ok ;)

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Boo Boo Kitty - I have dreaded the muffin top for far too long... in fact most of my parts are 2 sizes too big (and getting bigger yay) because of it.

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I want to wear zip up boots that aren't stretch leather... I have the chubby calves and thighs issue. I have great boots that are all stretch leather though.. I just want to walk in pick up whatever pair of heels I wand know my calves are not to muscular or chubby!!! Never underestimate the power of hot CFM boots

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When I have achieved my goal:

I am able to shop in any store I choose.

I can see the big quad muscle in my legs

I can see my collarbones and hipbones

I can play tag at the park with all of my kids for as long as they want

I can complete a triathlon

I can sit in any chair I want

I can buy the sexiest underwear money can buy and wear it with confidence

I can hold my head high in any public situation

I can complete a marathon

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Mr. Yoda broke the male silence on this chicky cheeky site...so here I go... although I will admit Aragon I don't know what a "Brazillian" is!!

1. I want others to call me "big guy" only when they are standing beside me at a urnial.

2. I will stop paying for first class air tickets so I get an extra 4" wide seat and a hot towel.

3. I want to wear the lime green speedo that came with my Borat DVD. LaLaLa La.

4. I don't want my truck blinker to go on everytime I pass McD's or Dairy Queen.

5. I want to be able to go to a men's "Big & Tall" store only because I am TALL.

6. I want to fit my ICON leather motorcycle jacket I bought the day I decided to get banded and take my wife for a long long "ride".

7. I want to be able to play sports again at the level I did a few years ago.

8. I want to stop wearing black clothes

9. I want to be able to have the energy to enjoy my kids, wife and life. I want to be a better husband, father and friend.

10. I want a 'Brazillian" ....sorry I mean a "Columbian"!!

CanadianMacDaddy.

11. I want it to freakin stop snowing in Calgary.... as I look out the window.

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The men on this forum ar hysterical! I love them. Mrs. Yoda and Mrs. CanMacDaddy are two lucky women.

I wan't to stop worrying about dying young and leaving my daughter behind.

I want to be able to walk in any store and not be asked if I am looking for a gift.

I want to wear a pair of killer heels without killing myself.

I want other people's jaws to drop when they see me for the first time after a long time.

I want to get off all this crappy medication I have to take every day.

I want to be able to walk up 2 flights of stairs without needing a hit of oxygen.

I want to be on top wihout the fear of crushing my dh.

I want to wear sexy lingerie and feel good about it.

I want my DH's stocks to do well so he will pay for my Tummy Tuck and breast lift in about a year!!!!

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