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I am starving. I feel so guilty cause when my hubby went out to return movies I ate rice with a egg. I been drinking Protein Shakes and chicken brooth but it's not cutting the hunger. I don't think I can do this for another 4 days till surgery and 6 weeks after surgery. Help! Im trying to keep my eye on the prize but it is tooooooo hard.

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It is very hard!! Keep your eye on the prize. If we can do this...we can do anything! I am on Day 13 and even though it's a little easier....it's still hard. Stop feeling guilty.....guilt is one emotion I know made me FAT! Brush it off and get back in.....today is a new day.

Btw...my surgery is on Feb 7th as well.

Good luck!

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It is very hard!! Keep your eye on the prize. If we can do this...we can do anything! I am on Day 13 and even though it's a little easier....it's still hard. Stop feeling guilty.....guilt is one emotion I know made me FAT! Brush it off and get back in.....today is a new day.

Btw...my surgery is on Feb 7th as well.

Good luck!

how did your surgery go spaness?

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how did your surgery go spaness?

Surgery went well. I was in much more pain and discomfort than I anticipated. The "gas" is crazy ridiculous. But I am 4 days post op and feel much better....pain is subsiding (gas may take a few more days). I see my doc today for a follow up...which is good because I think I developed "thrush" after surgery. Gross I know...another discomfort I just want to go away. Thank you for following up with me....how are you doing?

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Surgery went well. I was in much more pain and discomfort than I anticipated. The "gas" is crazy ridiculous. But I am 4 days post op and feel much better....pain is subsiding (gas may take a few more days). I see my doc today for a follow up...which is good because I think I developed "thrush" after surgery. Gross I know...another discomfort I just want to go away. Thank you for following up with me....how are you doing?

I am a wimp! I need to mentally prepare myself for this. Your post was so real! On a scale of 1-10 what was your pain levels. Dehydration caused your thrush? Did you have difficulty drinking?

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I am a wimp! I need to mentally prepare myself for this. Your post was so real! On a scale of 1-10 what was your pain levels. Dehydration caused your thrush? Did you have difficulty drinking?

The pain was also more than I anticipated as well. I was expecting to be walking around pain free after 2-3 days. Ya right! I got that idea from the hospital support groups and that was a lie. I heard these people say," i was back at work in 2-3 day." That is some bullshit and now I know if the said that it cause they didn't have anymore sick days or vacation. I took a short term disability which I am happy cause Im going back March 25. My 1st doc appt is Wed. Not sure what he will say but i hope he tells me to eat solids. :-)

Well i am happy to say i can drink easily just not to many ounces like before. I just am so tired of laying Down...back cramping and neck. Ugh! But if i sit for long periods i hurt as well.

Spansess-how much weight have you lost since surgery? What did your doc say?

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I wouldn't say that being able to walk around after 2-3 days is a lie! I was one that was able to do so and I own my own business so it had nothing to do with lack of sick days or vacation. I never needed any pain meds! Everyone's bodies are different! Unfortunately it's a wait and see process. I just had a complete hysterectomy 1 1/2 weeks ago and never needed pain meds. Everyone told me how painful it was and I would have a hard time for a few weeks. It scared me to death! I was terrified for nothing! I would say lap band surgery for me was between a 1-2 on the pain scale. However, don't ask me what childbirth was! I'd give that a 10+. LOL....remember, everyone is different!!!! Don't set yourself up for something that may not happen. Go into it with an open mind. Good luck and I hope all goes well for you!

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I am a wimp! I need to mentally prepare myself for this. Your post was so real! On a scale of 1-10 what was your pain levels. Dehydration caused your thrush? Did you have difficulty drinking?

I want to say right after surgery (the first 12 hours) for me....the pain was about a 7. Pain meds helped. I took them every 4-6 hours religiously. As of yesterday, I no longer needed the pain meds but still a little sore at the port site. I was up and moving around right after surgery to move gas. And then continued to do so over the weekend. I still feel gas discomfort but "moving" does help. I am not sure any of the anti-gas meds ever helped me. I am pretty sure the "thrush" is from dehydration. I had a hard time with liquids the first 12 hours and then it got better.

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The pain was also more than I anticipated as well. I was expecting to be walking around pain free after 2-3 days. Ya right! I got that idea from the hospital support groups and that was a lie. I heard these people say," i was back at work in 2-3 day." That is some bullshit and now I know if the said that it cause they didn't have anymore sick days or vacation. I took a short term disability which I am happy cause Im going back March 25. My 1st doc appt is Wed. Not sure what he will say but i hope he tells me to eat solids. :-)

Well i am happy to say i can drink easily just not to many ounces like before. I just am so tired of laying Down...back cramping and neck. Ugh! But if i sit for long periods i hurt as well.

Spansess-how much weight have you lost since surgery? What did your doc say?

I see the doc this morning. I was 222 the day of surgery and 218 today. I lost 18 pounds from start of pre-op (2 weeks liquid diet and then 4 days of post op).

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Everyone's pain tolerance is different! I went window shopping day 2 and was back at the gym day 4. Only took liquid Tylenol. NO gas pain a all. I was tired after the gym and needed a nap.

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What kind of exercises did you do at the gym just 4 days post-op?

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I wouldn't say that being able to walk around after 2-3 days is a lie! I was one that was able to do so and I own my own business so it had nothing to do with lack of sick days or vacation. I never needed any pain meds! Everyone's bodies are different! Unfortunately it's a wait and see process. I just had a complete hysterectomy 1 1/2 weeks ago and never needed pain meds. Everyone told me how painful it was and I would have a hard time for a few weeks. It scared me to death! I was terrified for nothing! I would say lap band surgery for me was between a 1-2 on the pain scale. However' date=' don't ask me what childbirth was! I'd give that a 10+. LOL....remember, everyone is different!!!! Don't set yourself up for something that may not happen. Go into it with an open mind. Good luck and I hope all goes well for you![/quote'] good for you. Im happy you had a better experience than i did. Good luck with the band and other things in life. God bless and much success to you.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

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